People are upset about this but this explains why many people have a distant relationship with ‘dad’s side’ of the family. You actually need a parent who is invested in facilitating those bonds for them to happen.
1. They talk to us condescendingly, as if we’re children or ignorant.
2. They expect us to sacrifice work–life balance because they do.
3. The wages simply aren’t livable
4. The work environment is toxic, and they resent us for calling it out.
as independent as i am, i love to be babied 🥺. acts of service are how i feel loved. i don't care about money, just lighten my load..im too prideful to ask for help 😭, but wen you take the initiative to take things off my plate, i kno you really see me.