It's so easy to play around with words without taking a moment to think about how those words affect other people. It's ok to not be a solution, but don't be the pain
People Said I Was the Man of the House and That My Husband Couldn’t Father a Child – Aproko Doctor’s Wife, Chef Amaka Opens Up on P@inful Battle With PCOS After Marriage
Popular chef and content creator Chef Amaka has shared the emotional ordeal she faced after being diagnosed with Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) just months into her marriage.
Speaking during an interview, Amaka revealed that she got married in June, but three months later, after missing her menstrual period, she visited the hospital where doctors diagnosed her with PCOS.
According to her, the condition brought noticeable physical changes, including weight gain and increased upper-body features, making her the target of cruel comments from people around her.
“I just got married to my husband in June. Three months into the marriage, I didn’t see my period. Then I went to the hospital, they told me I had PCOS,” she recalled.
She said the hurtful remarks about her appearance were difficult to bear, with some people claiming she looked much older than her husband.
“I started having upper body structure. Then I started adding weight. When my husband and I stand, I looked way older. I was told I am the man of the house, that I b+at my husband,” she said.
Amaka added that the most p@inful comments were those questioning her husband’s masculinity simply because they had not yet conceived.
“What made me cry was when they said my husband is not man enough to father a child. In my head, I’m like all this because I’ve never conceived,” she said.
@ChikaodiVivian The two brands you mentioned are one and the same; similar smell, packaging, and colour. Only brand names are different. They both give the same reactions cos they're both scented. I love how long they are, but hate that they're scented
@judiefeets@dimmakilishi That's because it's scented and not all of us do well with scented products down there. I used it and I got severe rashes all through. Never again!
@leyyokafor@instablog9ja Just like Indomie and Minimie, Power oil and Emperor oil. Same company owns them but they give customers the illusion of choice. People boycott one only to fall on the other
Neo didn’t back dow, instead of cooling off, he poured more fuel on the fire. Without evidence he quoted: “I have like 3 guys in my DM right now who’ve smashed that lady and they even attended the wedding.” 🚨
Be like the sister marry delta man. It's a culture in some part of Delta State. Wives MUST not take money from any man without their husbands' permission, not even from her father or brother
Don't ever send money to your sister, who is the wife of another man, without his consent. It's a taboo. Her sister can send her money. But not her male siblings. Not even her father can gift her without talking to the husband first. It's a very major disrespect. Recipe for broken home.
There is always an exception to whatever 'seem' true. Some of these men are single 'cos they're either burdened with responsibilities or have a set target they want to achieve before any romantic commitment.
Let me repeat.
If a man is over 35, and his family is being so "nice" to you, & urging you to get married to him, it may be a potential red flag.
The family knows that he's a stupid man or the black sheep, and they need you to come help them shoulder their burden.
End.
@Yourancestors_1@Thatgurl_Onyie@jon_d_doe Well, whoever goes about and 'demand' for those infos should be ready to tender matching documents, if not, hit the highway. What is good for the goose...
@Yourancestors_1@Thatgurl_Onyie@jon_d_doe I get your point and I feel you misunderstood the original tweet. The point of the tweet is to have those infos prior to marriage. No sane person would outrightly ask for those infos, at once, and not look suspicious, or even stupid. It's a process, but, KNOW your partner