If your focus is not to make care, understanding, and safety felt but instead to prove that you are enough, that you have power, or that you can dominate the interaction then real trust and closeness become impossible. Love is harder to find where love is not the priority.
Being spoiled by your parents as an adult is the biggest flex. Not even financially but the small things. Like just having them there for you even when you’re grown. Ugh. Some shit I’ll never take for granted .
my therapist was telling me today that there's no disappointment when you accept things or people for what they are. but you don't always have to cut people off when they don't meet your expectations sometimes you just have to adjust the relationship + accept their capacity.
my father always told me: “if you want to go for a run, go for a run, don’t look for company. sooner or later, on your fifth run or your twentieth, like-minded people will find you themselves.” and only recently have i realized that this principle works everywhere.
Cat’s been a big part of three Final Fours and an Elite Eight, understands our culture and what it takes to win. We’re thrilled she’s back. This is a big win for Pitt volleyball!
Wishing a very happy birthday to the one and only, our Associate Head Coach, @KellenPittVB!!!
Thank you for all you do for the program we all love 💙💛
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