You want to be a man like your father on top N400k salary. Don't you have basic sense of economics?
You are comparing yourself to your dad who raised kids under Abacha, Shonekan and Obasanjo. Why are you doing this to yourself?
Your dad raised 5 kids, built a house, drove a good car in his prime. If dem born you well, born 5 kids. You already married late because Nigerian government and poverty stole your prime. Why are you drawing the line on paying school fees for one or two kids? Odogwu I'm asking you ooo. Replicate everything he did na.
You are earning more than he ever did but you are significantly poor while he was middle class. Odogwu 🙌🏾
Switching teams is one of the lowest things you can do as a man.
If you can change a football team you’re capable of snaking anything and anyone I swear down.