sorry to say this... i know a lot of people are genuinely love what they do/someone
at the end, kalau pihak kedua gabisa merasakan hal itu, (for them) we're doing nothing
that's what i hate for being genuine
yg ditakutin bukan being fool sih tapi losing yourself bc too atached to that person. kayak takut banget kalo terlalu jatuh ke orang itu bakal ketergantungan to the point yg lo gabisa hidup tanpa dia. that's the worst nightmare.