Keep the house in your name only. Rent it out and share the profits, but keep the deed. Keep the car.
Get a prenup to shelter your pre-union assets. If he balks at any of this? Call it off. Protect your future first. ๐ฉ
I am about getting married, my husband to be knows I own a car and house of my own, he insists I sell the car and house and we use the money to open joint account, or no marriage, I am 38 yes old already, what do you think or advice me to do.
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Itโs not the lemon juice thatโs terrifyingโitโs the phrase 'But I wore the juice.' True danger isn't a lack of knowledge; itโs the unshakable belief in a delusion. A legendary case study in human psychology.
Did you know ๐
He rubbed lemon juice on his face. Robbed two banks. Smiled at the cameras. Got caught in an hour. And changed psychology forever.
In 1995, McArthur Wheeler walked into two banks in Pittsburgh and robbed them with no mask, no disguise, and lemon juice on his face. He believed that because lemon juice works as invisible ink on paper, it would make his face invisible to cameras. He smiled directly into the security cameras. Police aired the footage on the evening news and arrested him within an hour.
When shown the tape, Wheeler stared at the screen and said, "But I wore the juice." He had tested the theory with a Polaroid selfie and didn't appear in the photo โ because lemon juice got in his eyes and he aimed the camera at the ceiling.
His case inspired Cornell psychologists David Dunning and Justin Kruger to publish their 1999 paper defining the Dunning-Kruger Effect โ the cognitive bias where people with low ability drastically overestimate their own competence.
He had a heart of gold and a spirit that knew no bounds. By impacting and forever changing 33 lives, he leaves behind a legacy of a truly mighty and good man.
An Iowa carpenter worked 67-years at the same company and lived so frugal he only owned two pairs of jeans, one for work, one for church. When he died in 2005, he left $3 million to send 33 strangers to college. They call themselves โDaleโs kidsโ and meet regularly to honor him.
$225M for furniture? What are the chairs made ofโdiluted tears of middle-class taxpayers? ๐ช๐ง If you're looking for the right-wing influencers, they're probably busy checking if the ice cream machine works. Hypocrisy is the only thing the government produces efficiently. ๐ฆ๐บ๐ธ
How Pete Hegseth spent taxpayer funds:
$225 million for furniture
$15.1 million for ribeye steak
$6.9 million on lobster tail
$5.3 million for new Apple devices
$2 million for Alaskan king crab
$139,224 on donuts
$124,000 for ice cream machines
$98,329 for a grand piano
$12,000 on fruit baskets.
I assume right-wing influencers will start beating on the Pentagon doors, trying to break in, to get answers, right?
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a friendโs boomer parents bought their home for $67,000 in 1993. Today, itโs worth ~$1,200,000 and heโs their only son so he thought heโd be a millionaire when they die but they just sold the house last week to enjoy their retirement ๐
So the government can spend $98,329 on a Steinway & Sons piano, $5.3 million on devices from Apple, and millions more on lobster, king crab, and ribeye steak, plus $139k on doughnuts. But somehow taxpayers are always told thereโs no money. Interesting priorities๐
Some of the frivolous September purchases made under Secretary Pete Hegsethโs stewardship include a $98,329 Steinway & Sons grand piano for the Air Force chief of staffโs home, $5.3 million for Apple devices such as the new iPad, and an astronomical amount of shellfish, including $2 million for Alaskan king crab and $6.9 million worth of lobster tail. (Lobster tail is apparently a favorite of Hegsethโs Pentagonโthe department spent more than $7.4 million total on the luxury item in March, May, June, and October.)
In other pricey food purchases, the government decided to drop $15.1 million for ribeye steak (again, just in September), $124,000 for ice cream machines, and $139,224 on 272 orders of doughnuts.
BREAKING: As many as 150 U.S. troops have been wounded in the war with Iran, according to sources familiar with the matterโfar higher than the Pentagonโs publicly disclosed figure of just 8 seriously wounded troops. The true toll of this war is already far worse than the public has been told. (Reuters)
NEW from @nytimes: In the run-up to the Iran War, Trump ignored warnings that Iran could retaliate across the region and stop oil shipments. Now, with energy markets in chaos, some aides are pessimistic about the lack of a strategy to end the war. But they haven't told Trump.