The same man that checks in on you everyday and does everything in his power to brighten your day, can also be the same man that cries himself to sleep begging for someone to quiet pressure and demons in his head. Call and check on the men in your life, genuinely be affectionate to them. You wonโt know how helpful that would be.
Being MARRIED or COMMITTED to one person is a beautiful thing. Don't let these folks deceive you because they made the wrong choice. Ain't nothing better than having a soulmate, bestfriend, lover and protector all in one amazing person.
The best partners know these magic phrases:
โข I don't want to make any assumptions so I'm asking you first.
โข I can't text now, but I promise I'll call as soon as I'm able to.
โขI need an hour to think; I wanna bring my best self to this talk.
โข I'm really glad you spoke up; I had no idea that this was bothering you. Thank you for saying something!
โข I'm not sure how to solve this, but let's figure it out together.
โข I always want to ask you directly instead of assuming I know.
โข Ok, it makes sense to me why you'd be upset about that.
โข What can we do differently so this doesn't keep happening?
โข I want us both to feel good about how we address this issue.
โข If it doesn't feel good for both of us, let's work together to figure out what will.
Happy Father's Day to my father and to all men out there. Thank you for working tirelessly day and night for our comfort. May God bless you all with long life, good health and wealth. I love you โค๏ธ