Lacrosse world, meet Caleb. 💪🥍
He got his chance to score during the St. Peter & Paul vs. Severn game, and he MADE THE MOST OF IT.
Let’s show Caleb all the love as the celebration continues 👇
Being a Head Coach is Hard.
Most people have no idea.
Unless you have done the job, you don't know.
Here are the 8 Realities of Being a HEAD COACH:
1: It will consume you - Coaching is more than just a job - it's a way of life. You'll spend countless hours planning practices, analyzing game footage, and strategizing for the next big game. But when your team succeeds, it makes it all worth it!
2: There will be critics - No matter how well you perform or do your job, there will always be people who criticize your decisions and strategies. Know and Accept this. Remember, you know your team better than anyone.
3: You are not in it for the money - High School Coaching is not a job that pays well, but it's not about the money. It is a calling. It is a lifestyle. It's about the love of the game and the desire to help young athletes grow and develop into their full potential.
4: There is no overnight success - Building a successful team takes time, patience, and dedication. There will be ups and downs, but if you stay the course and keep pushing forward, you'll see the results. The #1 job of a coach is to Build Culture.
5: You need a supportive spouse - This should be #1 on the list for many! Coaching can strain your family. Having a spouse who understands and supports your passion is CRITICAL. Make sure to take the time to show your appreciation and give back.
6: You will not make everyone happy - As a coach, you will make tough decisions that not everyone will agree with. This happens a lot. But remember, you're in it for the team’s benefit, not just one individual. You will never make everyone happy. So make you happy.
7: You can't want it more than the kids - As a coach, you can inspire & motivate your players, but ultimately, they must want it. This can be hard for a younger coach. Encourage them to work hard & set goals. Let them take ownership of their success.
8: It is still WORTH it! - Despite the challenges, being a coach is incredibly rewarding! Watching your players grow & develop into strong, confident young adults is one of the best feelings in the world.
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Last year I wrote about mental health for @LacroCity and people told me not to publish it because I'm not a mental health expert.
And that's true. I'm not.
But I have lost friends that I never thought I would lose.
It's not always obvious.
Check in with your people.
Need a goalie for indoor tonight on NoHo if anyone is interested. Just bring your own helmet with throat guard and a cup. The rest will be provided. Let me know if you're interested.
The Dunktape, Points Leader across all NABLL, and drafted by the Halifax, Camden Smith had one hell of a Summer. A dynamic leader on and off the floor Camden brought both the sizzle and the steak to Fitzpatrick and barns across New England earning him our forward of the year!
Great coaches are HARD on those they coach!
They:
H - Have high expectations
A - Are selfless in all they do
R - Relentlessly lead and love
D - Do the little things daily
Thank you to Fogbuster Coffee Works for supporting the men on their trip to Nationals! Air Roasted since 1994, their cold brews fueled the team on their trip. Game 2 saw the men bounce back with a 7-3 victory over the Austin Scorpions. Dalston Day put in two goals for POG.
Please consider donating to the Paper City Oaks Sr. Box LC so we can get out to Chicago to represent the Northeast in the National tournament. Any amount helps. If you could share that helps as well. Thank you from all of us in advance!!!