puberty is just evil in general, no one should go through it. we should all be androgynous eunuchoids and sex shouldnt exist and babies only come from magic eggs that appear when two people love each other very much
It makes perfect sense to me that BDSM can be very appealing to some neurodivergent people. So much of vanilla dating relies on reading between the lines. Kink is often: tell me what you want, tell me what you don’t want, tell me the rules.