END OF THE MONTH is a MAN's most difficult day:
"Hello Sir, rent for this month is due."
"Boss, the tax amnesty ends today."
"Hello, Sir, I will not come to work tomorrow unless you send me fare."
"Hi Bro, don't forget. The event is tomorrow."
"Hello cousin, my son was admitted to university. I spent everything. I don't have fare back home. Help me, please."
"Jemo, someone has my money. Send me something small; I am being held at the Police Station for a traffic offence. If he refunds it, I will refund you. Please."
"Boss, I know I have your money. But I commit to pay. My wife is going into labour. Just help me with something on top of the other one; I will refund."
"Dear Customer, this is a polite reminder about your loan."
"Your post-paid line has been barred due to insufficient funds."
"James, your father is going for dialysis tomorrow. We hope to be at the hospital at 4 am."
"Hello, parent, Jayden is sitting his exams this month. Prepare for prayer day and to gift his teachers."
"Baba Jay, the tokens."
"Baba Jay, the gas."
"Baba Jay, my mother's consecration in the church women's guild is this Sunday. This is your mother-in-law, for heaven's sake!"
"Brethren, our church's hotel project fundraiser is next week."
"JAMES, your Online transaction of USD 81.76 has been declined on your card ending **42 at Truecaller due to insufficient funds."
Steven Uber: I tried to call you at 30-09-26 13:41 but you were not reachable.
Amos Mechanic: I tried to call you at 30-09-26 13:43 but you were not reachable.
"Please call me. Thank you. Everybody wins!"
"You, James, I will not remind you about your child's upkeep. Behave, or I will tell your wife. Nonsense!"
"Failed. Insufficient funds in your M-PESA account as well as Fuliza M-PESA to send KSH340.00. Your M-PESA balance KSH0.00."
It is tough being a MAN.
Grace be upon you, the MAN.
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What remains is pure fat:
• Stable at high heat. No oxidation.
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• Fat-soluble vitamins A, D, E, K.
• No lactose or casein for those sensitive to dairy.
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The next time you find yourself saying, “I don’t earn enough to save,” ask yourself one more question:
“What am I willing to sacrifice?”
Maybe you need to earn more, but if increasing your income is not possible right now, you can increase your discipline.
Look at what you are spending. Look at the things you want. Look at the lifestyle you are trying to maintain.
If you cannot increase your income, you may need to reduce your desires. And if you want to save and invest more, you may need to sacrifice some of what you enjoy today.
You cannot keep increasing your spending and expect your wealth to grow at the same time.
Either increase your sacrifice or reduce your desire.
Creating a better financial future means being willing to give up some of what you want today so you can achieve the things you need most in the future.
You don't re-think an investment strategy after one "bad" month. The thesis still holds — consistency.
Wealth creation is a way of life, not a one time get-rich-quick scheme.
You won't get wealthy because you put Sh 100K once in MMF, or bought 1000 shares of KEGN once.
The journey of raising passive income from Sh 2000 p.m to Sh 5000 p.m depends on structure. The target is to attain enough cash flow to pay for utilities like water, electricity, internet, and airtime.
~Bond coupons to pay school fees.
~SACCO dividends to fund wants.
~NSE dividends to pay transport.
Financial freedom involves lifelong learning and execution.
Finding your purpose.
Are you struggling to understand your purpose in life?
Do this:
1. Pick a pen & paper
2. Ask yourself
+ Where do I want to be in 5 years?
+ What do I want to be in 5 years?
3. Write your answers down.
4. Meditate.
There is a liver and pancreas epidemic wiping out Kenyan men right now and the silence is deafening.
Nobody is talking about it.
Nobody is panicking.
But we are still burying people.
The cause?
Kenyan alcohol.
This month ALONE I’ve counted 8 friends admitted with liver or pancreatic damage.
Eight. Bloated stomachs, abdominal pain so severe it won’t subside no matter what the doctors do.
The UK has put Kenya on a watchlist for dangerous alcohol.
Rwanda has banned some of our liquor outright.
Other countries are shutting it out too.
The whole world can see what’s poisoning us and we’re still pouring it.
A few years ago we buried a brilliant CEO. Liver destroyed by drink.
By the time the doctors understood what was happening, he was already dead.
Getting a legit drink in this country is now a gamble with your life.
I have friends who will only drink in ONE place they trust, because everywhere else is a coin toss between a night out and a hospital bed.
The doctors aren’t sugarcoating it anymore.
They’re telling survivors: “Take one sip and tell your family where you want to be buried.”
Drink the same brand abroad and it tastes like heaven.
Same label. Same bottle. Different poison.
That’s how we know it’s us.
We cannot keep killing our own people for profit.
I am tired of visiting friends in hospital for alcohol poisoning.
How many more before somebody cracks down on this madness? @InteriorKE@kipmurkomen@NACADAKenya
“Alfred, I have 1,000,000, and I’m retiring in a few years. Where can I invest it to multiply it quickly before I retire?”
I hear questions like this more often than you might imagine, particularly from people approaching retirement who suddenly realise that the money they have accumulated will need to support them for many years.
If I knew a legitimate way to 5X or 10X people’s money in 1 or 2 years, I would probably be the richest man in Kenya by now. 😂
In fact, I would probably spend most of my days on a golf course, occasionally checking my phone to see whether the money had multiplied again.
Unfortunately, I have yet to discover such an investment, and if someone tells you they have, my advice is simple: run away from that person!
There is an important distinction between investing and trying to multiply money quickly.
Investing is a process of putting capital to work and giving it time to grow. There are investments that can generate attractive returns, but the higher the return you pursue, particularly over a very short period, the more risk you are usually taking with your capital.
That is why successful investing requires two things: 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞.
You need money to put to work, and you need time to give that money an opportunity to grow. Take either one away, and the journey becomes considerably harder.
This is particularly important as retirement approaches.
If you are retiring in a few months, you cannot suddenly manufacture ten years of investment growth. Time that was available in your thirties cannot be bought back in your sixties.
And that is why I continue to encourage people to start investing as early as possible. When you are young, you have something incredibly valuable on your side: time.
You also have the opportunity to invest consistently while you still have an active income.
As the years pass, two things change. You have less time before retirement, and there is increasing uncertainty about how long you will continue earning the income you currently enjoy.
That is why retirement planning should begin long before retirement.
If you are approaching retirement and wondering, “Will my money be enough?” let’s have that conversation before you retire. Don’t wait until retirement to start looking for an investment that will multiply your money.
Charlie Munger's secret to success in life:
Spend less than you earn. Invest shrewdly. Avoid toxic people and toxic activities. Try to keep learning all your life. And do a lot of deferred gratification.
If you do all of those things, you are almost certain to succeed. And if you don't, you're going to need a lot of luck.
And you don't want to need a lot of luck. You want to go into a game where you're very likely to win without having any unusual luck.
Managing your money wisely is a life skill. Start small with saving, educate yourself on investing, and gradually build your financial portfolio.
Every shilling invested today brings you closer to financial freedom tomorrow. You don't need a million shillings to get started.
Use low-cost options like MMF, SACCO deposits, fixed income, and bond funds to build small amounts. With Ksh 100K accumulated, invest in an infrastructure bond for higher annual returns.
Before you think about investing, build your foundation.
Money works best in layers:
> First, control your spending.
> Then, build an emergency fund.
> Then, manage debt.
Only then should you focus on investing.
Skipping steps often leads to costly mistakes.
Always understand what you are putting your money into before committing, not after problems appear.
🔹 Know what the investment actually is. If you cannot clearly explain how it works, how it makes money, or what your money is being used for, you are not ready.
🔹 Verify who is behind it. Check whether the company, platform, or fund is licensed, regulated, and credible before trusting promises or projections.
🔹 Understand the risk. High returns may sound attractive, but every return comes from somewhere, and the question is whether that source is realistic and sustainable.
🔹 Read beyond the excitement. Terms, fees, lock-in periods, withdrawal rules, and penalties often reveal more than marketing ever will.
🔹 Never let urgency replace understanding. Good decisions can survive scrutiny. If you are being rushed, pressured, or discouraged from asking questions, that itself is valuable information.
Comparison is one of the quickest ways to lose sight of your own financial journey.
You cannot compare your Ksh 3,000 monthly investment to someone investing Ksh 30,000. You do not know their income, financial obligations, goals, investment horizon, or the sacrifices they have made to get there.
Personal finance is personal. The amount that stretches one person's budget may be insignificant to another, and that is okay. What matters is that you are investing consistently within your means and increasing your contributions as your financial situation improves.
It is not every day that you open one of the country’s leading newspapers and find an entire page dedicated to your journey.
To say I feel honoured would be an understatement.
I am deeply grateful to the @NationAfrica team for taking the time to tell my story. A journey that began with dreams of becoming a Catholic priest and through God’s grace and many unexpected turns, led me into the world of financial advisory, where I have now spent nearly three decades helping individuals and families build financial security.
Reading the article reminded me that no meaningful journey is ever walked alone.
Every milestone has been shaped by mentors who believed in me, colleagues who challenged me to grow, clients who entrusted me with their financial futures, my family who stood by me through every season, and countless friends who have encouraged me along the way.
This feature is, therefore, not just a celebration of my journey. It is a celebration of everyone who has been part of it.
If there is one lesson I hope readers take away from the article, it is that success is about far more than titles or positions. It is about remaining faithful to your purpose, serving people with integrity, and leaving every person you meet better than you found them.
To everyone who has supported me over the years, thank you. Your trust has been one of the greatest privileges of my career.
To the @NationAfrica team, thank you once again for this incredible honour.
If you have a moment, I invite you to read the feature and share your thoughts.
Raising children with discipline is not cruelty.
It is the highest form of love.
Raising children without structure leads to:
• Adults who can't tolerate discomfort or delayed gratification
• Entitlement that nobody will accommodate
• Anxiety - because a child without boundaries has no sense of safety
Hold the standard even when they resist it.
MONEY BOUNDARIES YOU’RE ALLOWED TO SET IN H2'2026..
You can say:
“I can’t lend money right now.”
“I only help family from this fixed budget.”
“I’m saving for something important.”
“I’m not comfortable co-signing a loan.”
“Let me think about it.”
You don’t have to go broke to prove you’re kind.
When your presence is no longer strategic to your employer's interest, they will let you go. Love your job but convert that salary into cash flow assets. Your employer is only responsible for paying a salary to compensate your time and productivity, not your financial stability.
Imagine your life was turned into a movie. Would you admire the main character or wish they made different decisions?
Picture yourself sitting in a cinema as the story of your life unfolds on the big screen.
As you continue watching, something remarkable begins to happen. You stop seeing the person on the screen as yourself.
You begin seeing them as the audience would, a stranger whose life is being shaped by the decisions they make every day.
You notice the small details you never paid attention to before. The opportunities that are ignored. The habits repeated without question. The promises made to yourself that somehow keep getting postponed until “next month.”
You hear the main character talk about wanting financial freedom, then you watch them spend impulsively.
You hear them speak passionately about building wealth, then you watch another salary disappear without a plan.
You hear them dream about a better future, yet every scene seems to be moving in the opposite direction.
As you sit there in the audience, one question quietly begins to form. “𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐝𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐩𝐭?”
That, perhaps, is the most uncomfortable part of the film, because from the audience, the pattern is obvious.
The encouraging part is that every great story has a turning point. There comes a moment when the main character realizes that if the ending is ever going to change, the script must change first.
This is that moment for you🫵🏾 The future you’re hoping for will be shaped by the decisions you make from this day forward.
So I’ll leave you with this.
If you were sitting in that cinema, watching the story of your own life unfold, would you find yourself cheering for the main character…
Or would you catch yourself whispering,
“You need to make a different decision.”
Better still, if the main character could pause the film, step off the screen, and ask for your advice, what would you tell them?
Would you encourage them to keep living the same way?
Or would you tell them it’s time to put a financial plan in place, seek guidance, and begin building the future they’ve always imagined?
You are both the audience and the main character.
If your advice to that character would be to seek financial guidance, then don’t leave it on the cinema screen.
Take that advice yourself. Schedule a one-on-one Financial Wellness Session with me, and let’s begin writing the next chapter with intention: https://t.co/2QILYqIoQd