The avoidant lost YOU.
They lost a person that loved them
unconditionally. They lost a person that gave them full effort. They lost a person that truly cared about them and had empathy for them. You lost a person that is emotionally unavailable. You lost a person that is entirely self focused in relationships. You lost a person that lacked empathy for you.
So..... who REALLY lost out here? It isn't you. THEY lost YOU.
The avoidant lost YOU.
They lost a person that loved them
unconditionally. They lost a person that gave them full effort. They lost a person that truly cared about them and had empathy for them. You lost a person that is emotionally unavailable. You lost a person that is entirely self focused in relationships. You lost a person that lacked empathy for you.
So..... who REALLY lost out here? It isn't you. THEY lost YOU.
nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. the rage you feel when you realize how much and how long you were taken advantage of. the absolute disgust you feel towards those people that mislead you. it comes in waves, sometimes you’ll feel healed and then it suddenly hits you
Sis! There’s a MAN out there that’s on everything you on, wanna go places with you, text back in a timely manner. Wants to see you succeed, wanna see you happy, love your energy & adds to it.. simply just loves everything about you. STOP wasting time & energy on people you gotta force to do those things. GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE ✨💕