I used to agree with this. Kodwa people heal from relationships differently. Sometimes that relationship was the learning curve and now that you've learnt from your mistakes you can now enter into a new relationship a better person. It all depends.
@maverickPersona@GiftBFN@nirvananokwe Consent plays throughout the duration of anything. People forget that someone can take consent away at any moment. Once that consent is taken away, and sexual activity continues we are now walking into sexual assaults territory.
@maverickPersona@GiftBFN@nirvananokwe In this case a few instances of consent could come into play. Was she coerced to be an active participant? Did she inform him after she inserted his penis that she would like the activity to stop. Was there pain involved in the act and she physically tried to stop it.
@maverickPersona@GiftBFN@nirvananokwe From the decision of going home she not kissing you back, she's not actively engaging in the sex. One would assume she is no longer interested. We need to normalise checking in on one another during such things. If someone's body language changes that shows consent has changed
@maverickPersona@GiftBFN@nirvananokwe This would mean that she also removed her implied consent as well. The absence of a no does not mean yes. That notion needs to be removed. Look at it like this. If a girl directs you to get a room and gives you condoms, then she decided no she wants to go home
This is why it's very important for one to have children when they have access to a village. Where is the father of the child in situations like this? Grandparents? Yoh ngka gafa straight.
Telling a new mom to sleep whenever the newborn is also asleep is hilarious because who is going to cook, clean and do everything that needs to be done in the house? 😂Y'all are funny
Do I understand that being that way opens me up to a certain type of treatment? Most definitely. Will I accept that treatment? Fuck no. You will keep your mouth shut or your entire lineage will catch these swear words, down to your great grandmother.
Just because someone shows their body doesn't mean you can speak to them any how. As someone who chooses to be publically nude, I will always swear at someone who decides to come at me sideways.