someone can be smiling and laughing with a positive attitude, responding on their phone regularly, going out to see other people and in general behaving how they do routinely in front of us, and still be struggling when no one is there to see.
if you want to support Puerto Ricans in the aftermath of hurricane Fiona DIRECTLY:
here's a thread of local organizations (don't donate to the red cross)
I really dgaf what I accepted before. I’m not her nomore. I’ve been through too much with life, people and different situations, if you knew me before you probably don’t know me now. I grew, I care about me more, I’m not accepting less than I deserve in any area of my life 🤗💕
i wanna be in Dubai riding a 4 wheeler, but i also wanna be in Santorini sitting pool side w/ a big ass hat, but i also want to be in Italy at an authentic Italian restaurant, but i also want to be in the Bahamas at the pink sand beach. tbh just vacation me up ASAP
stop letting peoples’ reactions dictate how excited you are about the way that your life is moving right now.
YOU are experiencing your life as it unfolds in real time. not them.
your lived experience is more important than their opinions.