dating someone who tries their best to nurture and understand the versions of yourself that made you who you are today: the inner child wanting to be heard, the inner teen wanting to be seen, as well as growing alongside the beautiful versions of yourself to come. that’s the aim.
Healthy relationships require a willingness to accommodate another person in your life. Everything can’t be all about you. Everything can’t happen only on your terms. You have to be willing to listen, and meet people in the middle sometimes. You have to make room for another.
if I care about someone, their emotional safety important to me. them expressing their feelings about literally anything or letting me know what’s been sitting heavily on their mental is never going to feel like a ‘bombardment’ or ‘inconvenience’ to me.
im actually a sucker for things in life that move my heart even a little, yes i will tear up at something beautiful, i will cherish how good hugs feel, when a stranger compliments me, random acts of kindness, platonic love, getting excited abt lil outings w ppl i love