There is something beautiful about having long term friends that have witnessed multiple versions of you and loved you unconditionally through each version
i stopped caring about ppl calling me argumentative just bc i speak up for myself. i will kill every relationship i have before i stop using my voice. & i will never be a sit down & shut up type of bitch! obviously thats what ppl want in their life.
I don’t think people understand.. you can LITERALLY drive someone to a point of not wanting to be bothered with you at all, on ANY level. rather it's a friendship, relationship, family, etc. it's only so much one person can take!!😭🤍
silent cut-offs are my cup of coffee. i’m not the type that announces stuff like cutting people off, you know what you did and how you’ve been moving recently. so why should i even waste my breath by telling you that you no longer have a seat at my table
everybody is shocked when you start being real serious about your bounderies, like yeah surprise, i'm not a people pleaser anymore so let's see how cool we really are
possessiveness has no place in any friendship or relationship. we do not own people, they belong to themselves. it is not normal to control their actions in order to soothe our own insecurities. people are there for us to experience and appreciate with respect.