Isn't it embarassing when during holidays your children ask you why they are not going upcountry like their neighbours?
How long will you continue living in rented houses in the city?
This year, buy land, own soil, build a home.
Don't live like a vagabond.
I came to the conclusion that you can only fumble a woman who has immaculate brains/ is good at making money/comes from generational wealth, the rest are expendable
Beautiful women in Nairobi are a renewable resource, they can never end
I love calmness. I don’t want to argue with anyone these days. i have learned to avoid difficult people, nothing is more precious than to live in peace.
normalize saying “unfortunately you’re no longer a safe person for me and I refuse to continually sacrifice my nervous system to make you feel comfortable”
A core sign of low intelligence is not being able to hold two contradictory ideas in your mind at once.
Most people treat an idea as a team to join.
Once they join that team, the opposing view becomes a threat. You stop thinking and start reacting.
dating to marry will make you realize that the "plenty of fish in the sea" narrative is false. alot of people are really not worth that level of intimacy