NO CAP I’M NOT A CONSISTENT FRIEND!!!! I’m more of a dependable friend!!!!! I'll go days without texting and calling you. That doesn’t mean I don't love you or don’t fwu. My mood changes! Some days I just don't wanna be bothered and also I have my own life, sometimes (1/2)
one thing about me…. if you genuinely believe cutting me off helps & improves your life in anyway, i support it…but understand , that once you do it , it goes both ways & it is for LIFE. i won’t allow you to pick & choose when i exist to you. once it’s done..it’s done.
i know they aren’t our responsibility but somehow it’s depressing to see our parents getting old while we’re still struggling to be stable in life, it gives so much pressure to some. the feeling of guilt is strong when we can’t afford the things our parents want or we failed +,
Someone mentioned that they did a lot of self work and healing while single but now that they are in a relationship, they are triggered often and she says “I thought I was healed!” that’s pretty common and here’s the thing…
My biggest 🚩🚩🚩 is that I've normalised silent treatment when I'm not in mood for a talk. I don't really know how to express my feelings especially when i'm sad & hurt. I only talk to myself in my head about how i feel all the time.