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[painfulheal ᵖᵐ @Painfulheal]

painful truth: u MUST develop a strong opinion of yourself, because if u don't, somebody else will do it for u. and trust me... some ppl will reduce your entire existence to their mood, their jealousy, their insecurity, or one mistake u made three years ago. don't let strangers become the author of your identity. damn...jeeezzz .

[𝓐 ⭑ @ayojoestar]

Autistic people don’t kneel to hierarchy. We sniff character and decide.

[EarthtoGazelle @EarthToGazelle]

Notice how people who talk to much never wanna listen to you talk or learn anything about you. It’s always just me me me me me me with them, while never even saying anything interesting & always telling the same stories over and over because they’re stuck in a time loop of themselves.

[sad bunny @_imaarn]

hay gente que nunca le ha emocionado un atardecer y se nota

[milis @ilovmiiloo]

siempre a favor de todo lo que nos ayuda a sobrellevar el mundo: los libros, las canciones, el amor, el mar

[Robert Greene @RobertGreene]

The brain is designed to learn through constant repetition and active, hands-on involvement. Through such practice and persistence, any skill can be mastered.

[maya @mayareminders]

I grew up in a high-conflict household & learned to create safety where none was given.. often through daydreaming, making myself smaller or trying to neutralize things I didn’t cause. always reaching for truth & a middle ground

but so many people don’t meet you there

[Hatime Kamilçelebi @HatimeKamilclbi]

Narsist bireyler duygusal büyümeye ve değişime karşı çok dirençlidir. Bunun başlıca nedenleri:
- Öz-yansıtmadan kaçarlar: Kendilerini ve davranışlarını derinlemesine incelemek istemezler.
- Gerçeği çarpıtırlar: Rahatsız edici gerçekleri inkâr eder, yalan söyler ve gaslighting yaparlar.
- Her şeyi başkalarına yansıtırlar: Kendi kusurlarını, öfkelerini ve kıskançlıklarını başkalarına yüklerler.
- Kendilerini özel/mükemmel görürler: Kusur kabul etmez, “Ben her zaman haklıyım” sanrısına sahiptirler.
- Mağdur rolü oynarlar: Sorumluluktan kaçmak için sürekli haksızlığa uğradıklarını iddia ederler.
- Empati kuramazlar: Başkalarının duygularına bağ kuramaz, bu da öğrenmelerini engeller.
- Çevreleri onları korur: Aile ve partnerler genellikle davranışlarının sonuçlarını görmelerine izin vermez.

Narsizm, çocuklukta utanç ve sevilmeme korkusuna karşı geliştirilen bir savunma mekanizmasıdır ama bu savunma, zamanla onları duygusal olarak “tıkanmış” ve değişemez hale getirir. Değişim mümkündür ama çok nadir olur, çünkü narsist birey öz-yansıtma, sorumluluk ve empati geliştirmek istemez. @PsychToday

[Er. Mansoor @MANSOORNABI12]

You have to learn to delay your reaction when people are purposely trying to provoke you.

[Prakriti @kritipraaa]

sometimes when someone is talking a lot, especially older people, it means they haven’t been heard properly in a long while. all of us yearn to be heard. all of us need someone to sit beside us, listen, nod, and even ask us to go on.

[BPnachi @DaProfitSee]

@ethereallivz If anyone trys to humble you for doing nothing wrong just know they feel u as a superior in some aspect and feel they need to try to bring u down to make themselves equal or better than... it's elementary my dear Watson

[Noctara @rumilyrics]

The older I get, the more I realize being in a hurry is a terrible way to live your life.

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

When you realize that no help is coming, you're an adult, and have to motivate yourself to move forward

[CooperBaggs 💰🍞 @edgaralandough]

What a privilege it is to carry heavy grocery bags, to have laundry to do, to sleep in freshly changed sheets, and to eat your favorite meal. What a privilege it is to laugh, to love, to be cared for, and to begin again.
It’s a gentle reminder that a meaningful life isn’t built only on big milestones, but on the small, often overlooked moments that quietly sustain us.

[M Bleu @soymbleu]

Qué bonito es cuando hablas con alguien y realmente está ahí. Se nota en cómo escucha, en cómo responde, en el interés genuino por lo que sientes y cuentas. En un mundo lleno de distracciones, alguien que te presta atención de verdad se vuelve algo muy valioso.

[Soy la gemela buena @_camivergara]

El mayor placer de adultos es llegar a casa y andar así:

[El CondeNado @elconde_nad0]

La vida cuando nadie sabe dónde estás ni que estás haciendo

[Nacho Coller @nachocoller]

Llevamos mucho tiempo con la moda de salir de la zona de confort. Como si fuera un deber moral.
Oye, que si estás bien ahí, no haces daño a nadie y duermes tan ricamente…
Igual no tienes que huir de ningún sitio.
Igual tu zona de confort es, simplemente, tu equilibrio.
Pesadez.