well it turns out that you thought you were mad at them for not being available for you when you needed but you were ultimately more mad at yourself for always being available for them because you have no boundaries and consistently put other people’s well-being over your own.
I’m such a firm believer in second chances because people are constantly growing, healing, learning & evolving. However, I am also a firm believer in discernment and revoking my access when noticing consistent negative cycles & patterns that remain linked to the same individuals.
if you actually cared about kids you should probably put more funding into schools, health care, shelters, foster care, and food programs, not force people who don't want kids to have them