Let me explain women’s biology to you that your MOTHER wouldn’t teach you.
Women cannot survive by strength. So nature gave them a different survival trick: fit in or die.
They don't have a truth filter. They have a SAFETY filter.
A man hears an idea and thinks: "Is this true or false?"
A woman hears an idea and thinks: "If I say this, will other women still like me? Will I be cancelled? Will I be alone?"
Belonging matters to women more than truth. Always.
That's why mass media owns them.
You put the same slogan on every TV, every TikTok, every Instagram ad - "girlboss," "finding myself," divorce glow "you don't need a family," "freeze your eggs"
and her brain thinks it's REAL because every woman is saying it.
You don't need to convince her with evidence. You just need to make her think EVERYONE ELSE already believes it.
She will swallow any lie if it makes her feel included.
Tell her being a single mother at 35 with a corporate job is empowerment and she'll clap, even while she's on antidepressants and crying herself to sleep.
Tell her being a wife at 20 with 3 kids is oppression, and she'll laugh at her own mother.
The media doesn't win by being right. It wins by making her scared to be LEFT OUT!!!
Real intellectual independence requires the ability to stand alone and defend yourself when the whole crowd turns on you. That kind of courage is built on physical strength. Only a mind that knows it can survive outside the herd dares to ask:
"Is it true - even if everyone says it's false?"
Only men can do that.
_"It was always the women, and above all the young ones, who were the most bigoted adherents of the Party, the swallowers of slogans, the amateur spies..."_
*- George Orwell, 1984*
Living as a youth in this country is crazy. Learning course after course, selling and advertising everything to survive because there are no jobs. “Learn tech, learn graphic design, learn handiwork…” how many things we wan learn? We can’t afford proper food not to talk of rent.
5 most frustrating experiences:
1. Being jobless
2. Looking for a job
3. Applying for a job
4. Getting rejected
5. Waking up the next day and doing it all over again
Unfortunately, I have to admit that I've not done my best. My current situation is a direct consequence of my incompetence. I suck at doing this life thing.
Nobody makes it alone. If you're broke, you'll lean on friends and family. Making money takes time, and having people in your corner matters just as much as making money.
If two people start a company and one contributes 90% of the capital while the other contributes just 10%, when the business starts struggling, who do you think is more likely to walk away first? Exactly, Now apply that same principle to your relationships