The fact that these women do no believe they're in the wrong. They are all over Tik Tok boasting about stealing from their partners and their fellow women are celebrating it. Others are praying for their turn to come. It's very easy to radicalize you as a single man.
do not be humble. I repeat, do not be humble. people discount everyone's credentials by default unless they see true celebrity status. your humility is not a virtue, it will be seen as weakness and self-doubt and you'll walk away frustrated at being taken for granted and/or undermined repeatedly.
do not fear cringe. do not fear owning what you've earned. so long as you have a steady head on your shoulders, you have no reason to go into the world trying to play 'nice' by lessening yourself.
understand the nature of people, 99% humans think and operate in predictable ways. if you tell them you are a big deal they will be curious and check for the truth. if you tell them you're just an ordinary person with nothing special, they will believe it instantly.
and this is for both men and women. stop hiding behind your humility.