Runner, Peloton enthusiast, paddle boarder, gardener, music aficionado, lover of summer, etc.
No act of kindness no matter how small is ever wasted. ❤️
Your soulmate is not someone that comes into your life peacefully. It is someone who comes to make you question things, who changes your reality, somebody that marks a before and after in your life. It is not the human being everyone has idealized but an ordinary person, who manages to revolutionize your world in a second.
Understand This Kind of Love
1. Touching your hair – I’m at peace here.
2. Holding hands – I choose you every day.
3. Kiss on the forehead – You’re safe with me.
4. Eye contact – You’re my favorite view.
5. Tight hug – I missed your soul, not just your body.
6. Laughing together – You feel like home.
7. Sharing silence – I’m comfortable with you.
8. Random texts – I’m thinking of you.
9. Late-night talks – You’re my calm.
10. Resting on the chest – I found my peace.
11. Walking side by side – We’re in this together.
12. Soft “I’m here” – I mean it, always.
13. Looking at you and smiling – You’re my person.
Kiss her.
Kiss her. Slowly, take your time, there's no place you'd rather be. Kiss her but not like you're waiting for something else, like your hands beneath her shirt or her skirt or tangled up in her bra straps. Nothing like that. Kiss her like you've forgotten any other mouth that your mouth has ever touched. Kiss her with a curious childish delight. Laugh into her mouth, inhale her sighs. Kiss her until she moans. Kiss her with her face in your hands. Or your hands in her hair. Or pulling her closer at the waist.
Kiss her like you want to take her dancing. Like you want to spin her into an open arena and watch her look at you like you're the brightest thing she's ever seen. Kiss her like she's the brightest thing you've ever seen. Take your time. Kiss her like the first and only piece of chocolate you're ever going to taste. Kiss her until she forgets how to count. Kiss her stupid. Kiss her silent. Come away, ask her what 2+2 is and listen to her say your name in answer.
Stop letting people consume you. They didn't call? Go to sleep. They didn't message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn't make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.
i fell in love with this quote:
"if you really like someone, being friends with them can be better than dating them." sometimes the deepest kind of love isn't about rushing into a relationship, it's about protecting what you already have. friendship lets you see them for who they truly are. no pressure, no pretending, no need to impress. you learn their heart, their habits, the way they treat people when no one's watching. it's not just about chemistry, it's about character. and if it ever turns into something more, it's not built on temporary feelings. it grows from trust, respect, and a real understanding of each other.
Girl to girl: let me hold your hand while i tell you this. Men make time for who they want. They provide for who they want. They spoil who they want. They act right for who they want. They communicate and reassure who they want. A real man will NEVER let his dream woman beg for anything, and if he does. He isn't the one.