if we want to maintain fulfilling romantic/platonic connections, we must learn to sit with and accept the discomfort that comes with listening to feedback when our actions negatively impact people. running from that discomfort and or dismissing the people giving feedback helps no one
It’s so interesting to me how men never apply this logic to women’s misandry.
To men, their radicalization to misogyny due to “kill all men” jokes is understandable, but women’s radicalization to misandry due to rape jokes and actual historical oppression isn’t understandable.
the aesthetics of subcultures have long been removed from the environments and ideologies that formed them, then to be appropriated by the machine and the establishment for capitalist ends. you don’t even know who or what you are. you are skin deep
"women don't want to be mothers" - no. women don't want to bear the burden of motherhood alone.
there are too many men who want a wife and kids without having to be a husband and a father.