@celine4cix@servingc0ck@x5m137lz82ygqz4@diamondsdayy Yes? And visual boundaries, ie. the way you dress, has no bearings on a manβs urge or thought to assualt you. I feel like you may be saying that all men have thoughts about assaulting people and donβt because of self control?
@celine4cix@servingc0ck@x5m137lz82ygqz4@diamondsdayy The only opportunity a pred needs is to be around you, and think they can get away with it. The concept of a visual boundary only serves to comfort the abused person, but does not actionably prevent or stop it. Visual boundaries are not a real thing.
@celine4cix@servingc0ck@x5m137lz82ygqz4@diamondsdayy Becoming unhygienic is also not the same thing as making a 12 year old girl wear a bra around her grandfather in case he pounces on the opportunity to touch her, which he would do if he thought he could get away with it if he wanted to bra or not.
@celine4cix@servingc0ck@x5m137lz82ygqz4@diamondsdayy You can plug and play whatever scenario would make a woman appear more vulnerable. If you keep your line of thought, you will have to cover up more and more until you canβt go outside at all. Being around men at all is waving proverbial meat in front of a tiger
@celine4cix@servingc0ck@x5m137lz82ygqz4@diamondsdayy If someone has decided to abuse you, whether premeditated a week from then or just within a few seconds, that choice isnβt made based on clothing choice. Itβs based on perceived weakness, isolation, and ease of takedown.
@celine4cix@servingc0ck@x5m137lz82ygqz4@diamondsdayy But predators will imagine you irregardless, or as you say, in spite of it. So I just maintain that itβs not an effective or beneficial measure that only serves to protect abusive men.
@celine4cix@servingc0ck@x5m137lz82ygqz4@diamondsdayy I keep saying that bc as I understand it, youβre saying that girls covering up is a precautionary measure against being imagined and masturbated to I think? As you agreed it doesnβt stop you from being assaulted.
@celine4cix@servingc0ck@x5m137lz82ygqz4@diamondsdayy Ngl Iβm starting to misspell stuff bc I made an appletini; policing girls bodies in response to is a comforting notion if you think about it like men are natural disasters and youβre tornado proofing your house - but irl an abuser seeks power and clothing is no barrier
@celine4cix@servingc0ck@x5m137lz82ygqz4@diamondsdayy That happens regardless of what you wear, there is nothing that is going to stop a predator from madturbating to a memory of you. If you can be assaulted fully covered, you can be imagined fully covered.