@Hi_Mrinal I think it's more about them wanting fast success..."oh this type of post/content have this much success? Okay I'll do something similar or just copy it to gain similar success"... This is what they think, also maybe to some extant this is also how algorithm works.
@ShubhAgrawal26 a lot of people go through similar obsession phases but mostly stick to consuming the content. You actually executed on it, which makes the obsession useful.
Everyone tells you to dig deeper, and
It's great that you want to. But there's no point digging into places that no one cares about. Every time you go one level deeper or explore an adjacent topic, ask yourself:
- Is this worth my time?
- What will I gain by understanding this?
If you don't have a clear, convincing answer, skip it. There's no point in spending time and energy on something you cannot convince yourself of.
Do something because it matters to you, and not because some random handle on the internet told you to.
Most people struggle in relationships because they want someone who's amazing, even when they themselves sucks.
They're looking for someone so good that they are able to see who you are deep down, even when you're someone who lies all the time, doesn't have long-term friendships, is fat, doesn't work out, is not ambitious towards their career, cannot handle emotions appropriately, resorts to manipulation when handling disagreements, and doesn't have the same or adjacent values as the person they're trying to date.
But.. the person they're dating should be able to look past all that and go deep deep deep into the goodness and purity of your heart that somehow makes you amazing even when no action of yours shows that you've actually made an effort.
a mistake I made and see my friends make is trying to invest a lot of money into stocks or mutual funds (or any other passive asset) before reaching a 1 lakh a month.
if you're making 30-45k (inr) a month - you should limit investments to 5k a month - max.
you're so much better off putting that money towards skill acquisiton and travel.
Go buy that chatgpt subscription, try those tools which are used by experts in your domain, spend it on courses and consultation calls with people you admire.
Rent a bike, live in hostels and solo travel for a week.
Do everything in your power to increase your active income. A 20% increase on 50,000rs is still only Rs.10,000
Influencers have sold you a lie. Please don't fall for it.