We have a depressed collective because we’re not told how important it is to paint, write, and make things. Without creativity humans go into survival mode.
A man who self reflects. Who’s grounded. Who knows God and knows himself. Who is accountable for his life. Who respects women. Who leads with divine truth. Whose energy alone says everything you need to know. This is the kind of man to listen to. Divine masculinity.
You can't grow with people who don't love how growth looks on you. If you don't feel it, flee from it. Growth thrives in places where it's celebrated, not tolerated. Find those who applaud the changes that come with personal evolution. You deserve to be supported, and cherished.