Most founders don't realize this until it's too late.
The people who love you will pay for this too.
They didn't sign up for it.
They just loved someone who did.
Your team needs a version of you that's certain. So that's what you give them. You walk in carrying doubt and produce confidence. You absorb the fear and project the direction. Every single day. That performance costs something. It comes out of something.
Your family gets whatever is left.
They can tell something is off. They just don't know what. You call it protecting them. All they feel is a wall. You just have to hope they're still there when it comes down.
They didn't choose this. They chose you.
You chose this.
Web3 built the most sophisticated systems in history for the wrong human needs.
McMillan and Chavis built one of the most important frameworks in community psychology for understanding why people stay, contribute, and keep showing up.
The first: membership has to feel earned. Effort, contribution, something personal invested. Not because difficulty is good design. Because the investment is what makes the belonging feel real.
The second: recognition. Being seen specifically, for what you did, in front of people you respect. That's what makes someone more attached to a community. Rewards can't replicate it. They answer a different question entirely.
Web3 spent years removing the first mechanism and calling it better onboarding.
Then it built the most sophisticated attention-buying infrastructure in history.
Points. Airdrops. Leaderboards. Incentives layered on incentives.
What they built was mercenary participation at scale.
And much of this space still calls it growth.
But paying for participation is not the same as building real commitment.
Almost nobody in this space is building real commitment.
Went down the rabbit hole on vibe coding apps
We’re now in a world where you can erase the question:
“Can I build this?”
But honestly,
Building was never the real constraint
The real constraints are:
- Finding a real problem
- Finding people w/ that problem
- Distributing the product to them
Look, I get it. Crypto just had a massive liquidation and we're lagging stocks and gold. But here's the thing:
For the first time ever, we're seeing protocols make REAL money from REAL users doing actual useful shit, not just degen gambling.
Three things going parabolic:
Prediction markets: @Polymarket hit $9B in volume for 2024, and it's now HIGHER today than during the election (it was supposed to collapse after). This is crypto's first product that normies use without knowing or caring it's crypto.
DeFi lending: Just hit $122B led by @aave and @MorphoLabs. That's equivalent to the 27th biggest bank in America. Borrows are higher than 2021 even though most alts are in the gutter. These are real banks now.
Stablecoins: Went from $130B to $307B since early 2024. Doesn't matter if Bitcoin pumps or dumps anymore, people are actually transacting with them.
The easy days are over but if you can't see we're at the start of the biggest wealth creation cycle for builders since the internet in the 90s, you're not paying attention.
Just wrapped up a call with a really LARGE entity building a regulated builder-code CEX on Hyperliquid to compete with Binance.
That’s where the true game begins.
Hyperliquid.
Web3 isn’t short on ideas.
It’s short on founders who know how to actually grow them.
Here are 7 brutal marketing lessons founders need to hear, pulled straight from Episode 12 of the @SafaryClub Web3 Growth Podcast 🧵
Catch the full episode here: https://t.co/yzGhF4EnhO
Follow @cryptoflowstate for more curated alpha
Big shoutout to @jkey_eth and @Safaryclub for consistently bringing the real conversations Web3 founders need to hear 🧡
The Playbook Smart Founders Are Quietly Following
- Start with business goals first
- Build your marketing strategy around those goals
- Focus narrow, act fast
- Prioritize audience-first thinking at every step
- Build real relationships, not just broadcasts
- Delay your token launch until you’re truly ready
- Hire the right marketing lead early. It will shape your entire growth trajectory
- Remember: consistent storytelling and community strength will always outlast viral hype
When interviewing, ask candidates:
- What real campaigns they would mirror (and why)
- Which ones they wouldn’t (and why)
Tap investors and platform teams to help vet marketing candidates — especially if you’re a technical founder.
The smart move?
Hire a mid-level "Swiss Army Knife" marketer who can:
- Execute independently
- Communicate clearly
- Own a mission-critical channel (content, community, BD, PR)
- Grow with the company