Since I’ve received similar messages several times as an artist, I’d like to make this clear publicly.
Yumeshippers, please DO NOT ask the artists you commission to block or even report your doubles. That’s your business, not mine as an artist who’s just doing my job.
Dealing w the wrong person can bring you SO MANY stalkers. Their friends, their exes, their family members. You got ppl watching your every move bc you made the mistake of connecting w a narc.
I genuinely don't understand what more people expect of someone, who's done something wrong, apologized profusely, obviously feeling deep remorse and taking actionable steps to change... I completely get being angry, and no one's owed forgiveness, but what else do y'all want?
Let them. Let them lie. Let them be a victim. Let them twist the story. Let them talk. Let them believe what they need to. You don't need to defend your truth to people committed to misunderstanding you. Let them go. Let them learn the hard way. Let them face themselves when the silence is louder than the chaos they created. Protect your peace. Choose your growth. Stand in your integrity; that's your power
If a person who's 'friends' with you gets mad over boundaries you set and assert. Then pulls a pity party over the fact that you said you would TRY to give them something that CROSSED that boundary. That's not your friend.
adult bullying is far more calculated than people realize. it is destroying someone's reputation with lies, turning people against them, humiliating them in public, deliberately excluding them, and withholding information to watch them fail.
запомните друзья когда человек из-за собственных заебов прекращает с вами общение блокирует везде а потом публично кичится тем что смог "избавиться от уебанов в своём окружении" то он просто конченый и его мнение не учитывается
Just another reminder that CPTSD is a nervous system injury. It's not a mental illness. It's not emotional weakness. It's not some physical flaw. It's an injury caused by surviving what killed the old you. Please be gentle, kind, and patient with yourself.
Kita ga pernah tahu seberat apa perjuangan seseorang. So, stop judging how people deal with their problems. Kita hanya melihat apa yang tampak, bukan apa yang mereka pendam. Be kind, everyone is fighting a battle we know nothing about.
Symptoms of CPTSD that no one would assume is CPTSD
•over explaining to avoid conflict
•feeling guilty for setting boundaries
•replaying conversations obsessively
•shutting down when overwhelmed
•struggling to enjoy good moments
•feeling uneasy when things are too calm
•panicking when someone is mad at you
Symptoms of CPTSD that no one would assume is CPTSD
•over explaining to avoid conflict
•feeling guilty for setting boundaries
•replaying conversations obsessively
•shutting down when overwhelmed
•struggling to enjoy good moments
•feeling uneasy when things are too calm
•panicking when someone is mad at you