I heard somebody say a man’s pride can make him lose a woman who really just wanted to be loved the right way, and that made so much sense to me. Because most women are not asking for anything crazy. They just want consistency, honesty, effort, reassurance, respect, and to feel like they actually matter. But sometimes pride gets in the way of all of that. 1/3
Cutting people off feels different now. It’s not anger, it’s grief. Like dang… I really wanted you here, but your actions showed me I’m not safe with you.
Disturb me.
Update me.
Get upset if I do something dumb.
Show your jealous side.
Yap non stop.
Spam me with photos/texts.
Tell me how your daywent.
Show me your fit
Call/FT me anytime
Send those insta reels
I love the little things.
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i’ve started appreciating days where nothing dramatic happens. no bad news, no stressful interactions, no overwhelming thoughts. just a normal, quiet day where everything is calm. those are the days that actually feel like rest.
I’m grown enough to know I ain’t the easiest to deal with. Life did its thing on me, so yeah… I overthink, I get triggered, I go quiet, and sometimes I don’t even explain it right. I need patience, that’s just real. But one thing about me tho... When I love, it’s genuine. I’ll still show up even when I’m not okay. My heart solid, intentions clean… and I don’t just walk away unless I’m pushed there 📌💯
I have to have talks with myself like girl you’re going to be okay! Everything is going to work out. Everything is going to come together. It always has & it always will.
Unfortunately, yes i sure DO give up on people.. you can't continuously disappoint me, distract me, not pour into me & expect me to continue showing up for you. No can do.