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Feeling “secure enough” engages the ventral vagal system—lets us stay non-defensive and open.
How to get there?
1.Reduce life stress relentlessly; benefits compound
2. Make it low-stakes/ turn it into play
3. Build skills privately first
4. Use rituals: “What if…” or “Suppose…”
What works for you?
@hjluks “Industry” may be key:
- conveniences
- entertainment
- fitness
- pharm
JFK did a 1st pass at coord. efforts betw. gov’t & business - even before taking office!
(Zach Even - Esh has a fascinating YT: ‘President JFK Wages War against "The Soft American"’)
Mrs. Obama tried, too
It’s largely due to geology -> fertile soil.
The plantation South had a few different ultra-fertile zones:
•The Mississippi Delta alluvial plain (thick river-deposited silt).
•The Black Belt prairie soils (Cretaceous chalk/limestone-derived along ancient inland sea coastline) in AL/MS/GA.
•Coastal rice/sugar regions (tidal marsh and alluvial soils) in the Carolinas, Georgia, and Louisiana.
All of these drew plantation agriculture, and all ended up with high African-American populations. That’s why the map shows several dark clusters: in the Delta, along the Black Belt, and in parts of the low-country/coastal plain.
That’s part of it.
The plantation South had a few different ultra-fertile zones:
•The Mississippi Delta alluvial plain (thick river-deposited silt).
•The Black Belt prairie soils (Cretaceous chalk/limestone-derived) in AL/MS/GA.
•Coastal rice/sugar regions (tidal marsh and alluvial soils) in the Carolinas, Georgia, and Louisiana.
All of these drew plantation agriculture, and all ended up with high African-American populations. That’s why the map shows several dark clusters: in the Delta, along the Black Belt, and in parts of the low-country/coastal plain.
@michael_nielsen If not already recommended:
"Monkeyluv: And Other Essays on Our Lives as Animals" by Robert M. Sapolsky.
3 parts:
1. Genes and Who We Are
2. Our Bodies and Who We Are
3. Society and Who We Are
Each has a shadow side. Reflection turns to vapor if it never touches ground. Imitation slides—clean and heedless—off the cliff to the canyon floor. And experience, supposedly bitter, is the sweetest of all when we choose our practices and our companions and repeat the rituals that fulfill us.
So the hierarchy isn’t fixed; each takes its turn and indeed each needs each other
Give reflection friction and let it learn from the best.
Give imitation perspective—gain models, not masters.
Give experience design—settings and companions chosen on purpose. The grace distilled from the others leads to more fulfillment and joy.
'By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third, by experience, which is the bitterest.' (Confucius)
@JohnHellemans Just like endurance: most understand it’s great to have, until they are faced with having to earn it.
But once truly earned, like forgiving, you realize the feeling is worth every bit of the effort.
@JohnHellemans For sure, and kindness seems to be at the Venn intersection of all of those as well.
Maybe modesty, gratitude, & humor are there, too.
I keep pondering it; I have always had a hard time distinguishing between the chicken & the egg; maybe kindness is the first of all 😁 🙏
@EleanorKonik It also might reflect on the seer, not the seen. When light falters, it is not the world that dims, but our eyes. So darkness is the chance to let our hearts & souls be the lanterns by which we see - that we might learn to distinguish & appreciate in the bright of day as well.
From an essay on co-creating with AI by Kevin Kelly:
“I think of a walk in a garden, or a hike in the high mountains – a hike that is not necessary for transportation reasons – as an act of co-creation. Together with nature, we are co-creating the moments of beauty we might find. Most of the beauty in the world is never seen by anyone. When we encounter these glimpses of a vista, or an exquisite way something is backlit, we are an audience of one. The joy is in discovering it; sharing is an afterthought.”
- KK
PS, Michelangelo also used tools: chisels, brushes, etc.
https://t.co/AYTdrpgfE8
@feelthebyrn1@JohnHellemans This diagram drives home a few points:
1) any of the quadrants (but for the green eye) can reflect the continuum of over-reaching <> over-training <> acute OTS <> chronic OTS
2) consider not only "snapshots" but "movies"
3) records are crucial
4) there are many roads to hell ...