badass nailtech 💅

small head 💅🤭,Lautech student 😌

You might just slip.....just catch balance, don't fall .

[badass nailtech 💅 @cute_ini_]

Dear future husband, I love you and I'm praying for you.
Your baby ❤

[badass nailtech 💅 @cute_ini_]

@Steh_Ella Real

[Makeup artist Ella🤭💄💇‍♀️ @Steh_Ella]

This IT has made me realize I won’t be speaking to any of my coursemate after uni

[Makeup artist Ella🤭💄💇‍♀️ @Steh_Ella]

May dump🌸

[YO PIZY @Pizyisbadder]

We still miss you 😭

[miia @miiagarro]

you need a lot of inner peace to avoid being rage baited by your mom

[🧸💕 @msbisiagain]

raping girls in broad daylight, the videos are scary asf.
i hope every one involved dies the worst way possible!

[Makeup artist Ella🤭💄💇‍♀️ @Steh_Ella]

Today’s work 🌸

[badass nailtech 💅 @cute_ini_]

@Steh_Ella @Bestaftermom @ofl_zeezahh @Phaydszn @tee_szzn @neemahmotolani @AremzTv @iam_joker951 Around October

[badass nailtech 💅 @cute_ini_]

@Steh_Ella @Bestaftermom @ofl_zeezahh @Phaydszn @tee_szzn @neemahmotolani @AremzTv @iam_joker951 Waitt, November??

[badass nailtech 💅 @cute_ini_]

@Steh_Ella @Bestaftermom @ofl_zeezahh @Phaydszn @tee_szzn @neemahmotolani @AremzTv @iam_joker951 Anyone is fineee

[τ @temiekele]

dating to marry doesn’t necessarily mean you’re going to marry the person. it just means you’re going to be intentional about the whole thing

[TylaTattz @TylaTattz]

Petite is height not fcking weight 😭

[Michelle Thomas 🤭 @TheBaddestMitch]

It’s so crazy how you can be chilling and not know your period started, but the moment you use the bathroom and SEE the blood, you start feeling like shit 😭

[Nutella🍫 @JusNuttela]

"You're my boyfriend so you're responsible for my needs"

[Gracious Onuoha @grayshurz]

7 things Id love to experience at least once in my life >>>

1.A suprise birthday party
2.Being loved loudly
3. I saw this and thought of you
4."I got you this because I know you like it
5. An "I'm proud of you"
6. An"everything is going to be okay"
7.A true hug

[T!🎀 @jesu__tofunmii]

“that girl begs a lot”
you no fit ever hear my name for that kind setting

[Dr. Ose Etiobhio @osemagnum]

VAGINISMUS:

THIS HAS DESTROYED MANY HOMES.

NO, SHE'S NOT PRETENDING.

READ, SHARE AND REPOST.

Dear Women and Men, come and learn...,

When the Body Says No: Vaginismus, Silence, and the Myth of a Closed Door

They come quietly, these messages, and they often begin the same way, Dear Doc, and then a confession wrapped in confusion, and sometimes shame. I married my wife as a virgin, and yet it feels like something is blocked, and I can touch her, and we can linger in foreplay, but when it is time for intercourse, the door closes. And in that sentence, a woman is almost turned into a riddle, and sometimes into a suspect. As though her body has decided to be wicked. As though pain is rebellion. As though fear is witchcraft.

But let us say this clearly, and say it gently, and say it loudly enough to undo years of silence: this is not witchcraft. She is not wicked. Her body is not conspiring against love.
This is called vaginismus, and it is far more common than we admit, and far more human than we allow.
Vaginismus is the body tightening when it should soften, and closing when it should welcome, and doing so without permission from the mind. It is an involuntary spasm of the vaginal muscles during penetration, during sex, during examinations, sometimes even during the thought of penetration.

Many women say, my vagina is blocked or I am too small, and what they are really saying is that their body has learned fear. And this fear does not belong only to first-timers, although many first sexual experiences are marked by it. It belongs also to women who have had sex before, and to women who have known trauma, and to women whose bodies remember pain from surgery, from radiotherapy, from infections, from stories whispered by aunties about how sex is suffering and womanhood is endurance. It belongs to women who were assaulted, and to women who grew up learning that sex is danger dressed as desire.

And yes, vaginismus has broken hearts, and strained marriages, and turned bedrooms into battlegrounds of guilt and misunderstanding. But it is not a moral failure. It is not stubbornness. It is not punishment. It is the body doing what bodies do when they feel unsafe, protecting itself.

So what do we do, when the body says no?
We begin with belief, belief in the woman, and belief that healing is possible. We begin with counselling, especially when there has been sexual trauma, because the body listens closely to the mind. We seek help not from one person, but from a team, the gynaecologist, and the psychologist, and the counsellor, and the physiotherapist, and the specialist nurse, because vaginismus is not a single story and cannot be solved by a single voice. We talk about lifestyle, and hydration, and the quiet power of pelvic floor exercises like Kegels, and we talk about lubricants, yes, generously, and some that soothe pain as they ease entry. We talk about patience, and vaginal massage, and gentle exploration, sometimes guided, sometimes slow, sometimes awkward, and always kind.

We talk about foreplay, not as a prelude, but as a language of reassurance. And sometimes, when anxiety refuses to loosen its grip, we use medication to help the body learn calm again. Vaginal dilators may be used, slowly and consistently, not to force the body open, but to teach it that opening does not equal harm. Surgery, we say clearly, is rare, and only for true physical obstruction, not for fear, not for memory.
This is a big issue, yes, and it can unmake intimacy if left alone in the dark. But it is also a treatable one. Help exists. Compassion works. Conversations heal.

And so, if your body has been saying no, listen to it, not with anger, but with curiosity. Seek help. Book consultations. Treat infections. Drink water. Be patient. Be gentle. Because sometimes the door is not locked.
Sometimes, it is only afraid.

[Pharaoh👳🏾‍♂️👑 @MrMekzy_]

All these marital problem stories no dey touch me, I GO STILL MARRY THE LOML without any atom of fear.

[Whemïmor @hy_wemmy]

I can never be caught in a fight, there’s nothing you can do that can make me get physical with you.