i'm at a place in my life where i promise you i will not deal w anything i don't fucking have to. i'm leaving, i'm unfriending, i'm unfollowing, i'm blocking, and doing anything i gotta do to not deal w people & situations where i'm not respected or valued. my peace is priority.
The healer also needs healing. The planner also needs surprises. The giver also needs to receive. The thoughtful also needs to be thought of. The considerate also needs to be considered.