Iโm convinced that the ability to remain unshaken by the minor inconveniences of life puts you ahead of 95% of people. Emotional control is the ultimate power. Few have it. Not every collision or slight deserves your energy. You can just let them float by.
Underrated life advice: Become difficult to rush. The world will pressure you to rush into everything. Rushed decisions. Rushed relationships. Rushed conversations. Rushed timelines. There's power in rejecting that trend. Pause. Slow down. Create space to think clearly.
The person you will be in 5 years depends largely on:
1. The books you read
2. The food you eat
3. The habits you cultivate
4. The people you surround yourself with
5. The conversations you engage in
6. The mindset you adopt
7. The risks you take and lessons you learn
it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself.
Iโll die on these hills:
1. Men should lead
2. Kids shouldnโt have a phone young
3. Jesus is King
4. Married couples should workout
5. You shouldnโt day trade
6. Gentle parenting is a pandemic
7. Adults shouldnโt be gamers
8. The greatest currency is time
9. You should invest 15%
10. You should take your family to church
11. You should pray with your kids
Forging a new society. Whoโs with me?
This japaa journey funny dieeee.
When you reach abroad, your spark go fess l'anaa
You go fess dissappear from the radial, during which your peeps go think say maybe you don dey shenk them..... Not knowing pe you are not only fighting for your dear life, and also your spark but you trying to even find your footprints.
Abroad life no be beans.
Walahai
#lifeofimmigrants
Someone once said, if you spend all day at a fish market, you'll leave smelling like fish even if you didn't touch one. But if you spend your day in a perfume shop, you'll leave smelling good even if you didn't buy anything. Your environment always rubs off on you. Spend time around people who complain. You'll see negativity everywhere, spend time around people who make excuses. You'll never change, but spend it with people of action, you'll feel inspired to move. Spend it with people of gratitude. You'll see blessings everywhere. The scent of your environment will always follow you.