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For many young people out there, we have been sold a dangerous idea: that only the successful and the intellectual have the right to speak, encourage, advise, or motivate the young. Because of that belief, we worship results and ignore process. We treat life as if it must always look rosy, curated, and triumphant. We polish the highlight reel and call it truth.
We do not want to hear from people who made costly mistakes. We treat their stories as contamination instead of instruction. Yet those are often the people who can tell you, with painful clarity, how not to live. They know the shortcuts that look clever until they collapse. They know the relationships that seemed worth it until they weren’t. They know the pride that felt like strength until it isolated them. A first-class graduate can tell you how the exam was passed. A person who failed, recovered, and still carries the scar can tell you what the exam actually costs when you get it wrong.
We also do not want to listen to those who struggled honestly, worked brutally hard, and still did not “make it” by the narrow scores we use to measure a life. We act as if effort only counts when it produces applause. That is a cruel and stupid standard. Some people do everything they can with the tools they have and still meet closed doors, bad timing, illness, family duty, economic shock, or plain bad luck. Their lives are not cautionary tales of laziness. They are evidence that the world is not a meritocracy machine that prints trophies for every sincere attempt. If we only listen to winners, we teach the young that struggle without a medal is shame. That is how people start hiding their real lives.
Look at students. Almost every class wants the first-class student, the prize winner, the one whose transcript looks like a brochure. Few want the graduate with a pass, a third class, or a second-class lower. We assume those results mean there is nothing useful in that person’s mind. That assumption is snobbery dressed as ambition. A lower class does not automatically mean a smaller soul, a weaker work ethic, or a poorer understanding of life. Sometimes it means a student was working two jobs. Sometimes it means grief, depression, a sick parent, a bad lecturer, a late start, or a talent that does not sit neatly inside examination halls. Sometimes it simply means the person is human in a system that pretends humans are ranking algorithms.
The obsession with perfect outcomes produces fragile young people. They learn to perform success rather than build character. They become afraid of ordinary seasons: the year that does not sparkle, the degree that is not first class, the business that dies, the relationship that ends, the dream that has to be revised. They think a life is only worth narrating after the award. So they stay silent when they most need company, and they refuse company from anyone whose story is unfinished or unglamorous.
Wisdom does not live only in first place. It lives in the person who fell and can describe the ground. It lives in the person who ran hard and still finished outside the lights. It lives in the graduate who did not top the class but learned how to keep going when the ranking said they were average. If we want younger people to survive real life, we should stop asking only the crowned to speak. Let the bruised speak too. Let the almosts speak. Let the ones who tried and were not celebrated speak. Their lessons are not lesser. They are often the ones that keep a person standing when the applause never comes.
Is it too late to retrace our steps?
@TundeVorm It’s not true. Give it time, you will see. It’s impossible for them to make more money than Madrid.
They can’t even sell out tickets without huge discounts.
KEEP YOUR FAMILY OFF SOCIAL MEDIA.
Not everything beautiful in your life needs a public audience. Protect your partner, your children, your home and your private moments.
The more people know, the more opinions, interference and unnecessary attention you invite.
Love your family loudly in real life, but keep them private online. Your family is not content. Protect your peace.
"Do you apologise to football fans? The Premier League says 'sham' contracts, is this a 'sham' club?"
@RobHarris questions Man City chief executive Ferran Soriano after the club was found guilty of all charges related to Premier League's financial rules
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