Before you pass away, Remove your kids as direct beneficiaries of your assets. Then place all your assets in a revocable trust and name your kids as the beneficiary of the trust. This allows them to by pass the lengthy probate process and gain immediate access to the assets.
For a long time, the narrative has been that getting pregnant 🤰 and keeping the baby 🤱 is trapping the man; but in reality it is the woman who is trapped.