This guy has been driving his babe to work every day for a while now because it's on the way to his own business.
Last week he asked her to contribute ₦30k for fuel because things are tight.
She said she doesn't have and she just collected her Ajo of ₦500k.
I told him, “No wahala, park the car. Let her take that ride for one week straight.”
Yesterday, she actually took a ride to work and spent ₦14k to get to work.
He actually went to work yesterday with the car, just that he left the house 2 hours later than usual.
She spent ₦14k to prove a point, and he got 2 extra hours of sleep. Some ladies just want to take and take, but don't want to contribute shishi. If ₦30k once in a while is too much, is ₦14k a day better?
Please, Make THANKING GOD (and People) a lifelong habit and practice. I mean intentional, detailed, heartfelt and consistent Thanksgiving, at all times.
In a short while you would begin to experience an unusual supply of Grace in your life.
There is a connection between the word CHARIS (Grace) and THANKSGIVING in the New Testament. Do a short study on this and you will see for yourself.
There’s also a connection between Thanksgiving and humility. Because gratitude takes the attention off you and fixes on another. It admits and acknowledges good and favour done by others. That in itself is an expression of humility. And James says God gives more grace to the humble.
If you engage this consistently, over time you would begin to notice remarkable changes and growth in your life and walk with God, something no one can away from you. This has been one of my major life’s hack. Try this and thank me later 🙂.
THANK YOU JESUS !
Man, I need to study more!
You hear some people speak, and just shiver from the sheer quality of knowledge they harbor in their minds.
All from studying texts!
My stance on side chicks is personal because I have been one.
It happened because my self esteem and sense of self wasn’t even on the floor. It simply didn’t exist.
In the moment, you will absolutely have multiple explanations and excuses to excuse yourself for taking part +
At some point in your life, someone will hurt you deeply and never acknowledge what they did. They may never apologise, take accountability or understand the damage they caused. And one of the hardest things you’ll have to learn is that you can’t keep putting your healing in the hands of the person who hurt you. You might spend months trying to understand how they could hurt you and carry on as though nothing happened. You might wait for the day they finally recognise your pain and give you the acknowledgment you deserved all along. But you can’t put your life on hold waiting for someone else to develop the self-awareness to understand what they did to you. Their refusal to take accountability does not make your pain any less real and their inability to apologise does not mean you have to keep carrying what happened. Moving on means accepting that you may never get the apology you deserve. You do not need their permission to make peace with something they never had the courage to own.
Stop frying your brain with endless short form content. Read long, complicated, books. Especially novels. Cultivate the ability to think deeply. To focus for long periods. Stare into space and enjoy boredom. Do tasks without any media playing in the background. Resist the urge to reach for your phone every time you feel uncomfortable. Get used to being with uncomfortable emotions instead. Wonder and think about the questions you have instead of asking AI. Become deeply present with everyone around you. Your ability to focus, pay attention, to think deeply, is one of your most valuable assets. Reclaim the immense beauty of experiencing your life directly instead of living it through a screen.
Fun fact: When a woman is on her period, her estrogen level drops which means her testosterone is driving her behavior. So when you complain she’s acting like a bitch.. she’s actually acting like a MAN.
Underrated life advice: Be careful what you normalize around your kids. How you speak to your spouse. How you treat your body. How often you complain. How you talk about others. What feels ordinary in your house becomes how they'll act as adults outside of it.
adult friendships have taught me that sometimes the person you regard as a “close friend” isn’t really your friend. and that’s okay, take your L and move on.
Last year Christmas, my sister in-laws (6 of them) held a meeting, made breakfast and excluded me and my kids because i don't usually wake up by 6am to cook. By the time I woke up by 7:30am, I went to the kitchen to make my baby's meal and saw everyone eating. I laughed, went
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