I really believe deadbeatism is a symptom of the contempt men have for women.
It’s never an accident, has always been in their plans for you.
The intention? To ensure your life gets layers of difficulty, strife, disappointment & hurt added to it
That’s why I need to work on my fitness and join Padel ASAP (futhi there’s a Padel team there by employer & they have Padel tournaments with other companies… i can use that to get into the sport 🤔)
Anything to piss black men off 🤌🏾
Men need to wrap their minds around the fact that women are PEOPLE who do things for OURSELVES, same as men do. We don’t pursue education, jobs, or hobbies for men, wear our clothes, makeup, or shoes for men, walk, talk, drive, eat, read, sleep, or shop to impress or attract men.
@PetiteEbonyGirl At the very least they do not believe in leaving for cheating. Thats foolish to them.
I’m not saying it doesn’t hurt or she doesn’t feel a typa way internally but for them cheating is normal male behaviour & is to be expected.
I don’t think him cheating makes him fall out of her good graces.
There are women who really are unmoved by infidelity.
You don’t know a bekezeling queen until you have met abogirl base 🇳🇬 yes not bonke but the ones I’ve met 😭 STRONG STRONG women
@sfisomahla14431 As a woman, I stand with him. If a man says he doesn’t want a child, believe him. If the decision to keep the child is yours, be prepared to provide for that child. You can’t force someone into fatherhood and expect them to show up. A child deserves more than that.
The injustice of inherited male authority: a man can fail to establish his own life and still be empowered to restrict the lives of the women around him. It is a disaster when that man is the eldest sibling.