I dated a man so inspiring that he made ME feel like wow I gotta step my cookies up. He had like everything I was looking for in a guy but we don’t talk anymore and that’s fine bc I did in fact step my cookies up afterwards and I’m better for the experience.
I don’t feel the need to pounce at any opportunity for connection because I’ve lived enough life to see what desperation gets you. The math doesn’t change so I won’t cheat myself out of the quality I deserve to satiate a passing whim.