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REN is a victim. Sending animal gifs or whatever does not mean you give consent dude. Coming from someone who was a victim of SA, this whole situation is disgusting. If i remember correctly, REN said no did she not? Then they backtracked but from what Ive read so far... 🧵
Just read the full annotated Google Doc breaking down the Roblox Pressure situation using ONLY the raw Discord messages between Zeal & Ren
>No curated stories, unbias as possible, only DMS...
--Here’s my detailed breakdown straight from the doc--
>Ren’s infatuation led her to ignore her own boundaries and people-please.
>Weeks of mutual hype + repeated consent checks in chat.
>Tragic miscommunication — not clear-cut assault.
Disclaimer from the doc: Ren’s long POV is heavily curated to fit her narrative.
>The raw Discord chats are the only unbiased source we have.
>Aug 24: Ren first asked Zeal “where are you staying let’s meet up.”
>He shared the Marriott right away.
>Deliberate coordination from both.
>Aug 25: Zeal said “im gonna meet you and pick u up and throw u around.”
>Ren replied instantly: “I like being picked up and thrown around / I am in fact a creature.”
>Aug 26: Zeal sent kittens curled up photo:
>“Can we do this.”
>Explicit consent check weeks before RDC.
>Aug 30 (2 AM): Full “wanna do this” animal video sequence.
>Bunnies holding hands → Ren “Ya.”
>Bunnies cuddling → Ren “Ya.”
>Bunny mounting → Ren “Yaa.”
Ren mirrored the energy: “Me to u.”
>Sent her OWN meme “Can we do this.”
>Confirmed her height/weight so he could carry her.
>Ended with “YAAAAY I LIKE BEING CARRIED AROUND.”
>At RDC: First real-life interaction was the exact planned lift/twirl they’d been hyping for days.
>Post-RDC (Sept 2-16):
>Ren offered her hotel key card for unrestricted access
>researched lube “to make it not hurt,”
>Sent voice notes saying she fantasized about him
>sent neck mark photo “U forgot u left those?”
>coached him on round 2
>apologized for being “selfish,” and kept reassuring him.
>Ren actively reassuring, initiating comfort, and planning repeats.
>But framed as classic fawning/trauma response: people-pleasing, lying to prevent abandonment, sacrificing her boundaries due to infatuation.
Ren’s later POV retroactively changed what consent meant (playful chat ≠ real-life consent).
Both failed at communication — Zeal should’ve asked more clearly in person.
>Ren ignored her own “no” signals to please him.
Doc conclusion: Both parties need to take responsibility. This is tragic miscommunication, not the black-and-white assault narrative.
>This just made the entire Pressure situation 10x more complicated.
>What’s your take after seeing the raw logs?