Despite your struggle and family responsibility, you still want to carry all of a woman’s financial responsibilities to get sex, respect and indomie in the name of relationship.
I don’t know what to say to you man. I can only pity you.
If your babe gives you attitude or gets angry if you can’t send her money when you need it, you do not have a relationship.
If your babe is only cool with you when you send her money, you do not have a relationship.
If you cannot tell your babe that you don’t have money, you do not have a relationship.
If you are borrowing money to satisfy your babes “wants” to prove masculinity and so she will not be angry, you are a fool, not a man.
If your babe threatens to end the relationship because of money, you do not have a relationship. If you are afraid of losing your relationship because of money, you do not have a girlfriend.
Nigerian men will rather die because they pay for their respect. Nigerian women want to die on the hill of "doing the little I can to support" because they will disrespect the man they married if they join income to pay bills.
2 income household does not mean 2 people earning a salary. It means 2 people joining income to sort bills. If one person is earning but is financially useless in the home, it is not a 2 income household.
Announcing that:
You like money
You're materialistic
Nobody should approach you if they don't have money
These are not evidence that you like money. It is evidence you're badly behaved. You just have audacity to air it out without shame. Who doesn't like money?
As an adult with no kids, it's my solemn duty to embrace the hobbies and adventures my peers no longer have time for, because they've sacrificed their freedom to keep the human race alive. I must travel, nap, pursue whimsical interests, and have fun in their honor.