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[Hayden Adams 🦄 @haydenzadams]

This is the worst mass doxxing I've ever seen

Just personally searched several high end apartment buildings that include people I personally know's PRIMARY residence (not pied a terre)

Not only were their units listed, but nearly every unit in the entire building was listed

They clearly took an incredibly expansive view of "could be" and just doxxed a huge percentage of all expensive apartments in new york city

Fuck absolutely everyone involved in this, this is incredibly dangerous

[Vivid Void @vividvoid]

If you ever meet someone with exceptional wisdom, and you wonder how they came by it, the answer is usually that they're a huge idiot who had to learn a lot of painful lessons the hard way

[MindBranches @MindBranches]

“Do Hard Things”

book summary in 4k light & dark

[X @XaviercMiller]

Which means if you made $80,000 in 2020, you need to make $110-115k today just to maintain the exact same lifestyle… don’t let anyone convince it’s ok to take your foot off the gas.

[Gary Vaynerchuk @garyvee]

People are yearning for more "real life." Running clubs, hiking tours, ski instructing... it's just so clear to me the explosion of analog.

2036 is going to feel like 2065, and because of that, the opportunity is to build businesses that feel like 1965

[BOSS @thebeautyofsaas]

contrarian take is that your 30s are the easiest time to reinvent who you are because you stop caring about the noise around you

there are only two requirements to do so

>you will not get anywhere by blaming the system (it's unfair...)
>realize that you have all the power

[purple🍃✨ @doseofpurple_]

The best advice I heard from a stranger was this: give luck more opportunities to bump into you. Leave the house, take a different road, travel, say yes to new experiences. The more you do, the more life surprises you in the best ways.

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

People respect you more when they don't see you often. Even parents. Trust me. It's strange how distance rearranges love, how absence restores what closeness erodes. When people are deprived of your presence, they start seeing you clearly again, not through habit but through awareness. Proximity dulls perception. Space sharpens it. That's just how the human mind works.

[zeta @zeta_globin]

crazy how 45 min of cardio and six hours of sleep is the difference between feeling like projects are going nowhere and being deeply grateful for the opportunities before you

[@redaction @redaction]

One of the most counterintuitive facts of life is that you gain energy by expending energy, inertia is a highly weighted variable in determining your mood, and something like depression is basically a cold start problem

[Sexual Health coach @sxhealth101]

Most men don’t realize how much porn is quietly destroying their sexual health.

Every time you watch it, your brain gets used to extreme stimulation and unrealistic scenarios.

Over months and years, real women start feeling boring, you struggle to stay hard, and you finish faster than you should.

This is why many young men today have performance issues even though they’re physically healthy. Quit porn and give your brain time to reset.

[🤠 @heavensbvnny]

My one boring tip to anyone in their 20s is to resist the temptation to rot in your room every time you get a free moment. Dismiss any neuroses you have about going outside and "being perceived". Be a dictator about it, plan your hangouts like they are binding commitments. No excuses! Go to the bar with your friends. Be kinda hungover at work. Socializing is like exercise; even if you don't feel like you want to, you should still do it because it's good for you.

[wolf @sharpinvestr]

Nobody teaches men that life runs on game theory. Not as an abstract concept but literally how every negotiation, deal, and relationship plays out.

The first rule is whoever needs the outcome least has the power. It's why the guy who's desperate for the deal gets a worse price than the guy who can walk. It's why chasing money directly makes you worse at getting it and why people say yes to things they should say no to.

That's why leverage matters more than cash imo. Leverage is optionality. It's having enough going for you that you never have to take the first offer.

[Digi @digiii]

Don’t waste another year

[smoothie @shedrinkswater]

When a woman intentionally becomes annoying, difficult, dramatic, chaotic, or slightly insufferable around the man she loves, she is trying to locate the edges of his nervous system. She wants to know where his composure ends, where his irritation begins, what kind of man emerges when she is no longer perfectly pleasant, convenient, soft, or easy to adore.

This is why a woman will provoke the reaction she is terrified of receiving. She wants reassurance, but she asks for it through disturbance. She wants to know if his love survives friction, if his patience has structure, if his affection collapses the moment she becomes harder to hold.

But this is also where many women become spiritually careless because testing a man constantly can become emotional vandalism. A good man's steadiness should be honoured and the peace should be maintained after a certain point.

The best men can remain calm, see through the performance, refuse to be emotionally hijacked, and still draw a boundary with love. He does not punish you for being chaotic, but he also does not let your chaos become how the entire relationship is directed

[. @cheerspal0]

Max out your personality

[BONESAW 🕊️ @BonesawMD]

The real secret to a successful life is decreasing your options.

[Pat Stedman | Dating & Relationship Coach for Men @Pat_Stedman]

From my early years being self-employed, cannot tell you how true this is.

Just. Get. Out. Of. The. House.

[Nav Toor @heynavtoor]

Alex Hormozi just spent 4 hours dropping the most brutal truths of the year on Modern Wisdom.

One line broke me:

"Money loves speed. Wealth loves time. Poverty loves indecision."

If I wanted to stop wasting my life, I would do these 10 things he said in that room.

[GREG ISENBERG @gregisenberg]

So let me get this straight....

1. Agents are about to outnumber humans on the internet, so most of the traffic, transactions, and conversations online will soon be machines talking to other machines while we sleep.

2. Superintelligence exists now, and for $20/mo you pretty much get it all.

3. Cloud agents allow you to run a business 24/7 and from literally a phone while you're waiting to order a latte.

4. Voice AI is wide open. This industry has barely changed since the 90s. Infinite opportunities. Voice AI is finally getting good enough.

5. Mobile apps are interesting again for the first time in 10 years, because an AI-first app that thinks and acts on its own is a different species than the passive ones in the store today. There are kids doing $100k/MRR.

6. It's the golden age of open source. The models you download off Hugging Face for free and own forever are landing within months of the ones behind paywalls, so the smartest thing on earth can't be throttled, priced up, or shut off by a company having a bad quarter.

7. The keyboard is on its way out. We spent 40 years learning to type fast, and it's about to feel like handwriting, because soon you just talk and the computer goes and does it.

8. Every company is about to hire agents with their own logins, their own inboxes, their own track records, and a shadow economy is forming where agents pay, hire, and vouch for other agents.

9. Software stopped being something you buy and became something you rent by the hour. The whole industry is repricing from $50 a seat to thousands per outcome. Tons of opportunity.

10. Robots are about to have the moment software agents just had. The intelligence got solved. Now it's dropping into machines with arms and legs, and the people who can wire AI into hardware are about to be the most fought-over hires on earth.

11. The 10-person startup can now out-ship the 500-person company, and everyone can feel it happening.

12. Every white-collar task is getting a "do it for me" button, and most people haven't pressed it yet.

13. Data you've been sitting on for years is suddenly worth something, because now an agent can actually use it.

14. Language stopped being a barrier. Real-time translation that actually works means the next huge consumer app might get built for a market you can't even read, by someone you'll never meet.

15. Every SOP is turning into a product. The way a business does one thing, written down as a markdown file an agent can run, is now something you can sell. Knowledge that used to live in someone's head became downloadable.

16. The moat moved from what you know to how well your business is written down. The company an agent can actually run wins, so being legible beats being big.

17. Since agents will get scammed by other agents, a whole trust layer has to get built. The Yelp for agents. The escrow for machines. Wide open.

18. You keep the whole thing now. A business that needed 50 people to hit $10M needs 3 and some agents, so instead of splitting it 200 ways with investors, it's just yours.

19. Search engines minted a generation of millionaires and billionaires. LLM search is about to do it all over again. Billions of eyeballs are moving off Google and onto ChatGPT, so being the answer inside the models is the new front page.

20. The margins are stupid. You charge someone what they'd pay a human, and it costs you a few bucks in tokens. That gap used to go to payroll. Now it goes to you.

Any one of these would DEFINE a decade on its own.

We got ALL of them at once, stacked on top of each other in the same 18 months.

It's a magical time to be building.

You don't need to overthink it.

Build.