Dele Bliss

Business Development | Cybersecurity | Edtech; but my finest conversations are about Christ, artificial intelligence and a home country that is OK!

[Electra @Electrarythm]

You will never outperform your self-image, this is one of the most important things ever said about human behavior and almost nobody understands what it really means, your self-image is the picture you carry inside your head of who you are, what you're capable of, what you deserve, and what's possible for you, and your entire life is just your nervous system executing the orders of that picture, you don't behave according to what you want, you don't behave according to what you say, you don't behave according to your goals, you behave according to who you secretly believe you are, and the gap between where you are and where you want to be is almost always the exact gap between your real self-image and the one you keep trying to talk yourself into.

The plastic surgeon Maxwell Maltz figured this out in the 1950s when he noticed that some patients, even after he fixed their face perfectly, still walked out of his office feeling ugly, and others with minor cosmetic changes walked out feeling brand new, the surgery didn't matter, what mattered was whether the internal picture had changed, and he wrote a book called Psycho-Cybernetics in 1960 that became the foundation of basically every self-development book that came after it, his point was simple, the brain operates like a guided missile that locks onto whatever self-image you've installed, and it will steer you, sabotage you, and bring you home to that image no matter how hard your conscious mind fights, you can win the lottery and end up broke again in two years if your self-image is "poor person," you can lose 50 pounds and gain it back if your self-image is "fat person," you can land your dream job and quietly destroy it if your self-image is "not good enough," because the brain experiences any mismatch between reality and self-image as a problem to be corrected, and it always corrects toward the image.

This is why goal-setting, willpower, motivation, and discipline almost always fail in the long run, they're all happening at the level of behavior while the self-image underneath stays exactly the same, you can't out-discipline a self-image, you can't motivate yourself past it for more than a few weeks before it pulls you back, the only real way to change your life is to change the picture first, and the picture changes through repeated vivid imagination, especially in the relaxed state right before sleep and right after waking, when the critical part of your mind goes quiet and the subconscious actually listens, you spend ten or fifteen minutes a day living inside the version of you you want to become, with full sensory detail, with the feeling of it already being true, you do that consistently for a few months and the internal picture genuinely shifts, and once the picture shifts the behavior follows by itself, no daily battle required, because now your subconscious is steering you toward a different home.

[Dele Bliss @dbpaago]

There might be a logical argument for side-chics 😏

[Austine @theereal_one]

this shit low key scary cause apparently women who comfort niggas & shii slowly start seeing him as a bitch and less of a man over time

[Onwa_Nnewi @Kene_Nnewi]

If your husband can fill 12.5kg cooking gas.,buy crates of eggs... subscribe cable TV, buy data and fuel generator in this present condition of Nigeria...

Madam please give that man some REAL PEACE OF MIND.

[C @cyrusamanya]

You should have things you don't do, places you don't go to, substances you don't take, words you don't say

By all means, have Principles and Standards.

[Somto Okonkwo @General_Somto]

“You Went To School, I Went To School. You Graduated, I Graduated. You’re Working, I’m Working. 7 Years After Graduation… You’re Meeting Me And You Want Me To Marry You, And You’re Asking Me If I Have a Car Or a House. So Tell Me… Why Don’t You Have a Car Or a House? We’ve Both Been Earning Salaries For The Past 7 Years. What Did You Do With Your Own Money? Make it, Make Sense.”

[Dele Bliss @dbpaago]

Until the Nigerian legislative houses, state and federal, pass anti-open-grazing laws, their noise on security is merely theatrics.

Ban it, grant the right of slaughter to any community infringed upon, and grant the right to bear arms. It's the only way.

[Alpha Degenerate 🙌 @DegenerateUnc12]

When it’s me that now has the money and car I must date my age mates that never looked my way when I was broke. Never, give me that 21 year old.

[Corey @CoreyChall]

@gamray Been there, brother.

[honest30bgfan @honest30bgfan_]

This is the only way we can have a change in Nigeria, because some of these elderly women that collect money for vote are not even aware what they are doing is not right, it’s your duty as a youth to educate them. Please pass this video to someone else until it goes viral

[Shivॐ @thehighmuse]

the most obvious indicator of spiritual progress is when you start coming across good hearted people everywhere you go.

[smoothie @shedrinkswater]

Creative energy and sexual energy appear to be deeply correlated. A person with a high libido often has to direct that energy somewhere meaningful, otherwise it begins to overwhelm them and pull them away from themselves. The intensity has to go somewhere and has to create.

Sexual energy is the energy of creation. It is the force that draws two people together, dissolves barriers between them, and opens them to something larger than themselves. The entire process is oriented toward creation, whether that creation takes the form of a child, a deeper bond, a transformation of self, or simply an expansion of life.

When that energy is not being expressed within a relationship, it often seeks another outlet. it can be anything from art, business, writing, music, invention, philosophy, or obsessive craftsmanship. The same force that creates life can also create worlds.

Perhaps this is why some of the most creative people seem possessed by their work. They are taking an immense reservoir of life-force and converting it into something that can exist outside of them.

[KALYJAY @gyaigyimii]

South Africa have 0 shots on target because they are busy targeting other African countries

[Augustus @AugustusDelano]

Believe in your success. Believe in His teachings. Believe in love and redemption, in miracles and good people. Believe that you are held worthy. Believe in Heaven and moral duty. Act on these beliefs as truths, and watch what happens. Or believe in their antithesis, and pay for it

[Peng @Acedouglas01]

I like women who like me, want to be with me, call me, text me, and take me out. All that nonchalant, broke, wicked, and ‘main character’ aesthetic doesn’t move me.

[toad @thelifeoftoad]

Although you’re extremely attractive and I’d love to have sex I don’t think we’re soulmates and it would thus be irresponsible for me to entangle our spirits. Hope you understand

[Kwaansa @Kwaansa_]

@EricNjiiru

[Aku N’esi Obi Ike (I) @Kasieobi_1]

“Under GEJ, there was only one kidnapping of school children by the terrorists, & the entire world was in protest against the govt. Under Buhari, in 8 yrs, there were 10 school abductions, & under 3 yrs of Tinubu govt, it has surpassed 10 & the world is keeping quiet”

—Peter Obi

[Joe Black 🇿🇼 @joeblackzw]

Incorrect. He had a visa. From the US Embassy in Nairobi. It was valid. They vetted him there, and gave him a visa.

Then he landed in Miami, was detained for 11 hours, and deported to Istanbul.

THEN they branded him a terrorist.

A FIFA referee, simply because he’s Somali.

[Billem Dafoe @Billem_DaFoe]

Literally the only thing women have going for them is that men want to fuck them and the only thing they care about from men is their attention/resources.

If men actually acted rationally in their own interest with sexual discipline, it would be a HORRIBLE deal for women.