The ego tends to equate having with Being: I have, therefore I am. And the more I have, the more I am. The ego lives through comparison. How you are seen by others turns into how you see yourself.
Why do anxiety, stress, or negativity arise? Because you turned away from the present moment. And why did you do that? You thought something else was more important. You forgot your main purpose. One small error, one misperception, creates a world of suffering.
namjoon talking about how marriage doesn't eliminate loneliness reminded me of his letter to us from 2014 festa
"Everyone has a natural loneliness in them, and are faced with it when certain issues arise. But I don't think loneliness is only a bad thing.
It becomes nourishment for my feelings, and sometimes loneliness makes me realize many good things. So, if you're lonely, I hope you can re-read this letter and be comforted. Because I know how it feels^^!"
namjoon said that lately everyone keeps asking him about marriage but he advises not to fall for the pressure or what the media tells about marriage, especially for women, you live your life your own way. if you want to get married then go for it, but if you donโt, itโs fine.
"why are you crying this is just a clip"
the clip:
๐จ:Everyone these days are chasing when it comes to marriage itโs very realistic, just, especially for women, there are a lot of problems like the social media giving pressure. I just think just live your live.
TYSM NAMJOON FOR THE REASSURANCE ๐ฅน