Jillian

All things Catholic, dating, and hopeful. Helping solve singleness. ❤️‍🔥 Matchmaker Madigan is my professional better half. ❤️‍🔥

[Jillian @deathofdating]

@rebeccamharris8 I’m not above the self-retweet 🙂‍↕️

[Jillian @deathofdating]

Also all Catholic men be like, just turned 48, never married, but still hope to have 6+ kids. Looking for a virgin aged 22–26 but willing to go up to 27.5 for the right woman. I live in East Dakota.

Me: k

[Jillian @deathofdating]

@_MCMXXV_ This is so real. I’m kicking off mid girl summer rn. Went to a barre class then had a glass of sauv blanc. About to have a salad and hang out with my cat.

[Jillian @deathofdating]

If looksmaxxing is the vice of excess, then looksminning is the vice of deficiency.

Why can’t we find a virtuous middle ground where people neither hammer their cheekbones into place nor shave their eyebrows and dye their hair green? All I’m asking.

[Fr. Gabriel T Mosher, OP @lukei4655]

This man’s life is so sad to me.

[Jillian @deathofdating]

@AdrianNF8173 you didn’t ask for a complimentary compliment but Adrian is my favorite name so, I like your name.

[Jillian @deathofdating]

Today and today only I’m giving out compliments to guys. All you have to do is pay it forward by asking out a girl. Pls sign up below.

[Eamonn @EamonnClark]

@deathofdating Girls if you want to get a guy's attention and 100x your chances, give him a real compliment. Better yet have your friend tell him, like you were nervous to tell him yourself.

[Jillian @deathofdating]

@NoahBertilson Singles just need more cats.

[Jillian @deathofdating]

Copy this strategy

[matt @ruffledsavior]

no more dating apps. i'm going to contract tuberculosis and fall in love with my nurse. it's settled

[Jillian @deathofdating]

@EamonnClark @MoonshinerMonk @CanonCath The easiest self-improvement hack for women is fitness (i.e., weight loss). Nothing obscures beauty more effectively than excess weight.

[Jillian @deathofdating]

@BrodyCaker Your self-improvement transformation is inspiring! Great smile and 👓 too.

[Jillian @deathofdating]

@DavidUpham2504 Agreed. I work with Catholic men and women around just this (traditional roles and dating guidance). @EamonnClark just launched a program specifically for men called Excel.

[Jillian @deathofdating]

Men used to holler.

Now women ask the same question:

“Why don’t men approach me anymore?”

I think I know the answer.

Spoiler: it’s dating apps and feminism.

New essay: Men, We Love You. Please Holler Back

https://t.co/51PKVmNjGO

[Jillian @deathofdating]

@vikhtervekhter Your mom is really nice.

[Jillian @deathofdating]

@PaulMclo You seem like a wise gentleman.

[Jillian @deathofdating]

And also this:

[Eamonn @EamonnClark]

"What is happening is that there are so many options that women feel like any guy who approaches them is either desperate in terms of who he will approach, then they feel like a piece of meat or "just another option," but if it is really intentional then they feel like they are about to be proposed to, and they get scared and put off."

-Me

Join the ExCel group chat to talk about how to beat the modern Catholic dating hellscape.

https://t.co/eALwnXJPRF

[Jillian @deathofdating]

@NoahBertilson Yes, they do. I’m bad at X so I think I sent yours direct.

[Jillian @deathofdating]

@Crunchygurrl @lisavsworld You both have great hair. (Compliments for ladies too.)

[Jillian @deathofdating]

@SobriiEstote I’ll do you one better. You’re gorgeous.

[Jillian @deathofdating]

@NoahBertilson you’re a rare gem. We need more men like you who repost cat memes and reject both OF and taking the black pill. Amen 🙏🏻🩵

[Vincent 🇻🇦 @TheMagniSoul]

Maybe she’s taking a while to text back because she’s never interacted with someone this hot and she’s nervous

[Jillian @deathofdating]

@Jeremyakee It’s a sad reality, but sadder for whom? On the surface it seems worse for men, but I encounter women who are under-average over-rejectors who can’t figure out why they’re still single. Cold hard reality is the key to unlock this mystery.

[Jillian @deathofdating]

@Damion_Monaghan It’s tough for sure. I’m a hopeful romantic in that I hope we can start to change the culture back to women respecting men and vice versa. I get called names by dudes on the Internet, but I still love them.

[Jillian @deathofdating]

@Brad49649135 This is true. My wildest and most controversial advice is, women need to be kind and respectful to men.