Also all Catholic men be like, just turned 48, never married, but still hope to have 6+ kids. Looking for a virgin aged 22–26 but willing to go up to 27.5 for the right woman. I live in East Dakota.
Me: k
@_MCMXXV_ This is so real. I’m kicking off mid girl summer rn. Went to a barre class then had a glass of sauv blanc. About to have a salad and hang out with my cat.
If looksmaxxing is the vice of excess, then looksminning is the vice of deficiency.
Why can’t we find a virtuous middle ground where people neither hammer their cheekbones into place nor shave their eyebrows and dye their hair green? All I’m asking.
@deathofdating Girls if you want to get a guy's attention and 100x your chances, give him a real compliment. Better yet have your friend tell him, like you were nervous to tell him yourself.
@EamonnClark@MoonshinerMonk@CanonCath The easiest self-improvement hack for women is fitness (i.e., weight loss). Nothing obscures beauty more effectively than excess weight.
@DavidUpham2504 Agreed. I work with Catholic men and women around just this (traditional roles and dating guidance). @EamonnClark just launched a program specifically for men called Excel.
Men used to holler.
Now women ask the same question:
“Why don’t men approach me anymore?”
I think I know the answer.
Spoiler: it’s dating apps and feminism.
New essay: Men, We Love You. Please Holler Back
https://t.co/51PKVmNjGO
"What is happening is that there are so many options that women feel like any guy who approaches them is either desperate in terms of who he will approach, then they feel like a piece of meat or "just another option," but if it is really intentional then they feel like they are about to be proposed to, and they get scared and put off."
-Me
Join the ExCel group chat to talk about how to beat the modern Catholic dating hellscape.
https://t.co/eALwnXJPRF
@Jeremyakee It’s a sad reality, but sadder for whom? On the surface it seems worse for men, but I encounter women who are under-average over-rejectors who can’t figure out why they’re still single. Cold hard reality is the key to unlock this mystery.
@Damion_Monaghan It’s tough for sure. I’m a hopeful romantic in that I hope we can start to change the culture back to women respecting men and vice versa. I get called names by dudes on the Internet, but I still love them.