people who are conflict avoidant really believe they're more mature than others. no you're a coward. and it's more than likely ruining your entire life.
NEVERR underestimate the people who go through betrayals, character assassinations, fake friends, and jealous family members and they still stand strong through it all.
I do give up on people. You can’t continuously drain me, disappoint me and disrespect me while expecting unlimited access. I have a heart, but I also have boundaries. I can forgive, understand and give chances but I won’t keep sacrificing my peace for someone who refuses to value it. Sometimes walking away isn’t bitterness. It’s self respect.
I’m very adamant about not having people around who repeatedly disrupt my nervous system through their lack of care, empathy, and consideration. Get away from me.
It gets easier to ignore things when you realize that people harvest your energy by baiting you into a vicious cycle of explaining, complaining, arguing and reacting. Lots of people can’t or dk how to be civil in dialogue with you so they resort to being provocative instead
Until you evolve, unlearn, relearn, and realize that women of this generation will not endure the bad treatments many of your mothers endured in the hands of your fathers, y’all will keep having failed marriages.
for the first time in my life, i love myself more than anyone else. there's no room for self-abandonment or neglect anymore. the tides change, and so do i.