Normalize seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in you regardless of what they tell you. Giving you all of the right words, but none of the right actions is called manipulation. When a person wants to be with you, they prove it.
Date someone who is curious about you. Not someone who simply finds you attractive or entertaining, but someone who wants to know the person behind the surface. Someone who reads every message twice, remembers the stories you almost forgot to tell, and notices the little things no one else does. Someone who wants to know where your scars came from, what shaped you, what makes you laugh, and what keeps you awake at night. Attraction may draw someone in, but genuine interest is what makes them stay. Find someone who wants to learn every layer of who you are.
With how much I love hot and pretty women, I really don’t see myself sleeping with only one woman for the rest of my life. No matter how good you fuck me, how hot you look, and how great you maintain your body, I see myself cheating with another woman.
It’s already a part of me that I have accepted, and the best I can do is to make sure to be discreet about it, not to rub it on her face, use condoms, and being the best man I can be to her in every possible way. But you see fidelity? I can never promise that to any woman.
I will handle total provision for the family, take care of you, meet up with my conjugal rights, but once in a while, I will desire to be with another woman. That’s the only way I’m going to be happy being with you and not get tired of you.
I have never stayed faithful in any relationship, and I don’t see myself doing that in marriage.
I want to be so comfortable financially that gifting my loved ones becomes second nature.
“You passed”
Dinner’s on me.
“You bought a car?”
Let me buy you fuel
Gifting my loved ones would honestly make me so happy.
he’s not wrong tho. he just said 80% of nigerian men’s mind.
no sane man would accept his wife back if she slept with bandits. it is adultery and grounds for divorce, so i don’t see any reason of paying the ransom
I used to date someone who knew how to properly punctuate when texting.
I was the better and more articulate speaker between the two of us, but they were the better writer.
Anyway, I found it very commendable, so much so that I started to consciously add the right punctuation when texting them too.
Trust me, it was cute, especially as they were just being themselves and did not mind how I sent my message to them, provided it was legible and readable.
But… ladies and gentleman. ‘Guirls’ and girls. Boys and ‘bouys’. Do not be fooled. It still ended in tears.🙂
Apparently, proper punctuation is the only thing they could consciously commit to in this life.
Stay wicked and single.
Happy Monday!!
I found a prayer in Ephesians 3:20
Lord, over my life, do for me what only you can do. Meet me exactly where I am and surprise me in ways I cannot explain. Do exceedingly and abundantly above every expectation I have carried into this season.