In marriage, there are two leaders.
The husband and the wife.
The husband leads from the front and the wife leads from behind.
When the man leads from the front, he becomes the head of the home.
When the woman leads from behind, she becomes the neck of the home.
The head will not stand without the neck.
And will not survive too.
The neck determines the direction of the head.
But the head must signal to the neck which way to turn.
Because the head is where the brain resides.
And the brain determines what the neck does.
If the brain is malfunctioning, it would give the neck the wrong signals.
So do not expect the neck to take full responsibility for the neck's failure.
End.
Itโs pure iberiberism (foolishness on another level) for a married woman to be calling some young boy who hasnโt even married yet โDaddy,โ โMy Lord,โ or โMy Father in the Lordโ like heโs the head of her life.
That guy is just Pastor Emma or Prophet Emma call him PASTOR by his real name, biko! Or donโt you know who your actual husband (the man in your life) is?
You go dey shout โDaddy GO!โ for church, but at home you call your own husband by name like heโs your mate or your child. Whereโs the respect? Whereโs the priority?
This one na spiritual misplaced affection and serious disrespect to the man God gave you as head. Stop the nonsense abeg. Respect starts at home, not in church drama.
Sisters, if the title โDaddyโ is that sweet, give it to the man who pays the bills, protects you, and sleeps beside you every night not some young pastor collecting offerings and ego boost.
Men, notice these red flags early. A woman who canโt respect her own husband but dey worship another man with daddy titles?
Run far!
@jon_d_doe@Doniiz_ Good morning sir
Christmas ๐ฒ๐ comes with nothing but glad tidings of God's blessings and mercies,
On this great day and season, may peace and joy be extended to you
like a river,
Merry Christmas and a joyous New year to you and all yours.
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