My coworker, Day 1: "Muna, I brought food for you."
Me: "Oh, thank you, but my wife packed enough food for me."
My coworker, Day 2: "Muna, I brought food for you."
Me: "Ah, thank you! But my wife will be joining me for lunch at XOXO."
Yes, we know some women pursue married men. But as a married man, it's your responsibility not to entertain or give unnecessary attention to anyone who isn't your wife.
We all know where those boundaries can lead if they're ignored.
A lot depends on what you're willing to tolerate and the boundaries you choose to keep as a married man who respects and values his wife.
Ask people in CBN. You can't use deception to open an account in CBN. You can't. They verify these things. There are processes.
The earlier we started speaking he truth, the better for the image of the county.
They want you to believe that a single man was running his own agency and getting allocation from the Federal budget on vibes and zero executive backing.
They know they haven't invested in your education enough. That's how they know you will believe anything.
So you mean to tell me a lawyer who was accused of stealing a client's money as a lawyer and got suspended/disbarred still gets accused of stealing money now that he has been rewarded with high office? Shocking! How could it be that people who were criminals in the US are still criminals in Nigeria? I can't understand it.
PSPs have no respect for Lawma, Lawma has no respect for TW.
This is what happens when your entire party is full of people who got their positions as a reward for loyalty as opposed to assigning competent people.
You can’t even vex when people aren’t doing their jobs cause all of you know how you entered office.
The open drainages we see in Nigeria isn’t due to cost from what I’ve seen. I think it’s more of ignorance and our refusal to change or review how we do things
A big part of actualizing as a woman is coming to terms with your physical characteristics and your natural style and not wishing you could look like someone else.
You know when I was growing up, I don’t know if I learned it from my parents’ actions or just the community but there were concepts I grew to understand
- Abomination (things that were just not even to be reasoned or thought about)
- Church mind (having a reasonable sense of responsibility, equity and fairness)
It’s when I got to secondary school, and really after that I realized most are not like this.
Like people don’t have any moral hiccups or limits, people just do anything. I still haven’t fully imbibed this reality even in my 30s
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A friend at a MidLaw firm recently told me he felt he couldn’t take paternity leave without upsetting the partners. He was planning to head back to the office two days after his wife gave birth.
My exact words: “If you show up for work two days after your wife has a baby and the partners don’t immediately send you home, run as far away as you can from that firm.���
We grind in law. I just worked a lot of the weekend on a deal with zero real urgency.
But there are lines. Becoming a parent is one of them. If your firm doesn’t treat it that way, there are 10 others that will.
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Nobody is saying you shouldn’t take time to cool off when you’re angry. In fact, sometimes it’s better to step away for a few hours so you don’t say something hurtful out of anger.
The issue is when that space turns into punishment. There’s a big difference between stepping away to cool off and completely shutting your partner out for days, acting cold, ignoring them, and creating tension in the house just to make them suffer emotionally.