This isn’t a reality show.
You don’t get to edit out high costs, failed leadership, and the Epstein files while pretending the ratings are great.
Families still see the numbers.
#TrumpsStateOfDelusion
Sorry, but someone who ruins your mental health cannot be the love of your life. Ever. I know you love them. I know you've built a future in your mind with them. I know you keep hoping they'll change, that things will get better, that the good moments will eventually outweigh the bad.
But here's the truth you need to hear: real love doesn't destroy you. Real love doesn't leave you anxious, depressed, constantly questioning yourself, walking on eggshells, or losing pieces of who you are. That's not love. That's trauma bonding.
Imagine dating a guy who messages you first because he genuinely wants to talk, replies quickly not out of obligation, but because you're a priority, and stays patient when you're overwhelmed or emotional. He's not interested in anyone else, his eyes are only on you. He cheers for your goals as if they were his own, notices the little things others miss, and sees your imperfections yet still calls you his choice. He chooses you daily, even when it's hard.
Hurting her while she was dealing with family problems, fighting her mental health issues and struggling for stability. Holding so much inside yet she was still trying to be her best for you. That's when, you failed as a man
if you catch yourself BEGGING someone for…human decency? a response? time together? clarify? respect? some compassion? some kindness? you need to make a step back & realize you’re begging someone for bare minimum. that’s ridiculous beneath you. fuck that shit.
Girl, let him lose you. If he doesn’t want to reply to your texts for hours, let him. If he doesn’t want to make plans or spend time with you, let him be. If he wanted to put effort into seeing you, talking to you, or being with you, he would. And if he doesn’t, another man will.
Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control
men are the real gold diggers. they expect you to give them your body, play maid, cook their meals, raise their kids, clean their mess, pamper their fragile egos, and take the brunt of emotional labor, all while holding down a job and splitting the bills
when a MAN really WANTS you, everything flows. no communication too hard. no bare minimum effort too great. no schedule too busy to make time for you. He will do the most for you. There's a difference between a man who CALLS you princess & a man who TREATS you like one