Done being perempuan rasional & diplomatik for people’s comfort. Because people think it’s fine to cross my boundaries because “ah she’s nice & understanding, she’ll be okay with this”.
I’m now in my perempuan unhinged era for my own comfort. I’ll put myself first.
When Allah wants you to grow. He makes you lonely, uncomfortable, anxious, tired and allows you to suffer. But He never lets you fail. He holds your hand and guides you toward what He wants you to become, then unveils His beautiful surprises for you. So, have Sabr.
Semakin dewasa, semakin kecewa?
Itulah realitinya, nak.
Hidup tak seindah yang disangka.
Namun, jangan pernah bersangka buruk dengan takdir Allah.
Hidup kita jika terlalu banyak ujian, selagi ada sabar dan iman, kita akan rasai kemanisannya di akhirat sana.
Life’s weight can feel endless. But every breath you take is another chance for ease.
Nothing in this world lasts forever. Not even the hardest trials.
Speak to Allah, even if it’s just a whisper. He hears the softest cries. He’s closer than you think.
Let them go. Let time heal.
For now, focus on you. Pour that pain into your books, your work, your dreams. Into building your future.
Trust me, you won’t always feel this broken. One day, you’ll realise this heartbreak was just a redirection towards something better.
If all you did today was breathe and try to stay, that’s enough. If you’ve lost interest in what you used to love, it’s okay.
You’re not alone.
You’re not failing.
Trust me, life won’t always feel this heavy. One day, you’ll feel joy again, even in small things.
Bila Ustaz Kazim kata:
“Jangan pernah terasa hati dengan orang yang lupakan kita walaupun kita selalu bantu dia, sebab Allah sentiasa ada dan tidak pernah lupakan kita”
Ya Allah, jika hatiku lelah, tenangkanlah.
Jika jiwaku luka, ubatkanlah.
Penuhilah hidupku dengan kasih sayang daripada-Mu.
Gantikan semua yang hilang, dengan sesuatu yang lebih baik dan penuh barakah.
Amin Ya Rabbal ‘Alamin.
Doa ini buat kalian yang sedang diuji.